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When anxiety turns into anger, experts say you shouldn’t ignore it

We may associate anxiety with being worried or scared, but some may also feel a sense of anger, something experts say is common, but shouldn’t be ignored.

Dr. Melanie Badali, registered psychologist and board director at AnxietyBC, says in general, anger is not usually considered to be a symptom of anxiety.

“Anger and anxiety are generally regarded as different emotional experiences with some overlap. They have both unique and common biological, cognitive, and social features,” she tells Global News. “Anger is usually connected to some type of frustration anxiety is usually connected with an overestimation of threat and an underestimation ability to deal with that threat.”

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How anger relates to anxiety

Joshua Nash, a counsellor based in Austin, Texas, wrote an article for in 2014 about anxiety and anger in particular.

“The point of my article was to show that anger is usually the emotion that people might identify in the moment, but that another emotion (anxiety for example) might be ‘underneath’ the anger, so to speak,” Nash tells Global News. “You won’t know anxiety underlies your anger until you’ve 1) fully felt the emotion first and then 2) introspected sufficiently to determine that the cause of your emotional upset was something you were afraid of.”

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He explains anxiety can morph into anger because we may not be directly dealing with our anxiety.

“Anger very oftentimes is indeed a symptom — it’s the expression of judging another emotion as too painful to address.”

When does it happen?

Dr. Eilenna Denisoff, clinical director of CBT Associates in Toronto, says there are several situations when people with anxiety (or other mental health conditions) can turn to anger.

If someone has an obsessive compulsive disorder, for example, and they follow a very strict routine, any kind of disruption from others could lead to anger.

“When that gets activated, they will respond in a way to try to convince other people to follow their ritual, and if they don’t, they get angry.”

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And often, when someone is scared or worried about something, they could turn to anger to feel more in control of their situation.

In relationships, she adds, those with social anxiety can also start arguments (sometimes on purpose) with their partners, knowing they could get out of social situations.

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“We all have anxiety systems that are natural and normal, but when it interferes with their quality of life, work or relationships, you need to do something about it.”

And ignoring it, Nash says, is worse.

“Unprocessed anger can also lead to medical issues and most especially relationship issues. Unaddressed anger festers in the body mind. It sits there waiting to be unleashed. It either does get unleashed, causing chaos in the person’s life and/or leads to addiction issues.”

How to manage anxiety and anger

Badali says there are three things you can do to manage your anxiety, adding that cognitive behavioural techniques also work.

Tip 1. Challenge anxious or hostile thoughts
This is also called helpful thinking or realistic, rational or balanced thinking, Badali says, because often when people are angry and anxious, they may feel frustrated or threatened.

“This strategy involves learning to see yourself, others, and the world in a balanced and fair way, without being overly negative or focusing only on the bad.

Tip 2. Learn to relax and be mindful
Calm breathing, muscle relaxation and mindfulness are key, Badali says. You can also try apps to help you meditate or chill out.

“Don’t expect these to change your emotions when you are already anxious or angry. Think of them like — exercise, start practicing them daily, you will see your skills building over time.”

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Tip 3. Think before you act (or don’t act!)
If you are feeling angry, before yelling or fighting, ask yourself, “Will this action help make things better or worse? Am I going to feel better now but feel worse later?”

And Nash says at the end of the day, it’s not about coping with anxiety, but rather understanding your condition in full.

“When we learn to connect directly with our anxiety, it doesn’t morph into anger, so there’s no anger to ‘cope with.’ Instead, we fully admit the fear we’re feeling and address it head on.”

Where to get help

If you or someone you know is in crisis and needs help, resources are available. In case of an emergency, please call 911 for immediate help.

The Canadian Association for Suicide Prevention, Depression Hurts and Kids Help Phone 1-800-668-6868 all offer ways of getting help if you, or someone you know, may be suffering from mental health issues.

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21 Ways to Cope With Anxiety-Fueled Anger

When you think of anxiety, what symptoms come to mind? A pounding heart and sweaty palms? Maybe shortness of breath, feeling like you can’t sit still or focus on any one thought.

Out of all anxiety symptoms, one we don’t often think or talk about is anger. Whether anxiety makes you uncomfortably irritable or you experience all-consuming rage, , yet often unspoken. When my own anxiety strikes, every little noise makes me want to scream. In times like these, I’ve thrown things or lashed out at loved ones. It feels uncontrollable, like something else is bursting out from inside me.

This kind of irrational anger feels shameful, but it can be overcome with self-compassion, understanding and sometimes therapy. If you experience anger as a part of your anxiety, know you are not alone. There are healthy ways to cope with it, and it’s nothing to be ashamed about. Rather, it’s a difficult symptom of an already exhausting disorder.

That’s why we asked our mental health community to share what they do when anxiety-anger strikes.

Here’s what they told us:

1. “I just don’t talk. I keep quiet and ignore everyone and everything around me. Probably not the best way to cope but it gives me time to calm my thoughts and be more rational.” — Lauren A.

2. “I remove myself to my room or a place where I can be alone. When I get really anxious I tend to snap at siblings or family members over the smallest thing” — Emily M.

3. “My anxiousness is usually from becoming overwhelmed. This then turns into a lot of anger. Anger about little things, past things and present things. One coping mechanism that works for me is taking a shower. The feeling of the water in my head is mindful which then helps relax me.” — Heather L.

4. “Pause and remind myself anger is because I can’t identify what I’m really feeling (and likely won’t until I’m able to remove myself and process) so I try my best to dial it down and get away as quickly as is acceptable.” — Rebecca C.

5. “I tell the people around me I need some time alone. Most often, my husband and kids are the subjects at which my anxiety and, as a result, anger, would be directed. I can feel the explosion coming as the irritability starts to fester, so I quickly take a step back and go to a quiet room by myself. I explain to my kids (and husband) that I am not angry with them, it’s my anxiety. This way, they know that nobody has done anything wrong. My son (6 years old) also has an anxiety disorder, so he is taking his cues from me and has started going into his room if he feels rage bubbling up.” — Krissy P.

6. “I don’t know if it’s anger, but definitely irritation. I focus on my breath a lot. In through nose, hold, out through mouth. Big ‘belly’ breaths.” — Kristina M.

7. “I take a cold shower. When people splash water on their faces when nervous or upset, it feels like it resets our system and allows us to literally cool down. So when I experience anger and/or anxiety, I take a cold(ish) shower. Even the simple task of showering can make me feel so much better.” — Sara P.

8. “I just work through it. I have learned to tell the people around me that my anxiety presents as anger and remove myself from the situation until I feel better.” — Joanie R.

9. “Grounding essential oils. They don’t ‘cure’ what is going on, but alongside eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy, they are a saving grace.” — Anna F.

10. “If I can’t remove myself from the situation, I do my best to acknowledge that it is really anxiety I am feeling and not anger and then identify what is causing my anxiety. If my anger is directed towards someone who is aware of my anxiety, like my boyfriend, I tell him I am feeling anxious so he knows I may be a bit on edge.” — Kristen M.

11. “I listen to music and I run. It’s the only thing that takes my anger away. I always express my anxiety through anger because it hides how emotional I actually get. I put my headphones in, lace up my sneakers and shut the world out.” — Hannah S.

12. “I have a journal app (Writeaday) on my phone. I usually have my phone on me, so when my anxiety skyrockets the fastest way to express my anger in a healthy way is writing my thoughts out in that journal. Then, I can write a positive response to what I wrote, a way to rewrite/reframe my experience.” — Dynne L.

13. “I find that my anxiety can make me super tired all the time, and that’s usually a good part of the reason I am angry. So instead of responding with anger, I usually just sleep, and when I wake up I feel more mellowed out.” — Tiffany A.

14. “I go for a walk. I find it helps if I get away from people so I cannot snap or lash out at them. A long walk often clears my head, and usually by the time I get back I’m not angry anymore. It doesn’t work every time, it depends on how anxious I am.” — Benji Y.

15. “Being with my dogs really helps. They can tell I’m upset and try to make me feel better.” — Emily W.

16. “Walk away while listening to some angry loud rock songs. Just walk and walk, rest for a minute or two then walk again without a clear destination.” — Jennilyn A.

17. “I retreat, sit with it and then try to channel it into research and/or writing. I’ve learned so much about my conditions and symptoms during anger-fueled research sprees, usually sparked by frustration at how unwell I am when compared to what support is(n’t) available. Lately, I’m more likely to share what I find to hopefully help others learn too.” — Laura H.

18. “I clean the house. If my anxiety spikes and I get really angry, I’ll start cleaning. It keeps me focused on something besides what I’m angry about or what’s causing my anxiety. Plus, I get a clean house, which makes me feel better too.” — Breanne A.

19. “I write a ton. I fill pages of my journal with all the terrible things. Kinda sad, but it works. I try not to reread them, but it’s helpful to look back on if I need to reference it.” — Kirstin B.

20. “I tend to play video games like Resident Evil, Drakengard or Bioshock to vent. Or I’ll clean my house. It helps to occupy my mind on something else and I calm down pretty quickly.” — Seirla I.

21. “Once I realized my anger was usually caused by anxiety rather than bipolar disorder, it became easier to manage with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). It allows me to recognize what triggers the anger and decide if there is something I can do about it. If you can solve the problem causing the anxiety, taking action alleviates the anger.” — Shaun S.

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Anger is a natural and normal human emotion that tends to make its presence known in any relationship, even if it is not addressed at the person to whom it is being expressed. Unfortunately, anger often rears its head in our interactions with those we love the most, including our romantic partners. But passion in a relationship shouldn’t mean that emotions like anger are expressed in uncontrollable ways. Managing anger and managing your response to an angry partner is a useful skill that can promote intimacy and maturity in any romantic relationship.

As a therapist, I often challenge my clients to think about how their reactivity in a relationship gets in the way of who they want to be as a partner. So often we shut down, complain to friends, or try and control our partner as a response to our anger. While these strategies may feel relieve us in the moment, they are rarely effective in the long-term. Let’s take a look at four simple strategies for managing anger and growing maturity in your relationship.

Avoid the Impulse to Cut Off

When a person is fighting with their significant others, sometimes they may feel the urge to slam a door and give them the silent treatment. Going silent can calm you down temporarily, but it is likely to increase your partner’s anxiety or anger. This doesn’t mean you have to sit down and solve a problem in the heat of the moment. Instead of quickly zooming out of the driveway or walking away, consider telling your partner that you need some time to calm down so you can organize your thinking. Let them know that it’s important to you to work out difference and consider what’s an appropriate amount of time for you to think and come back to them.

If your partner tends to give you the silent treatment when you’ve forgotten an anniversary or skipped dinner with their parents, you’ve probably experienced some anxiety not knowing what’s going to happen. You can’t make them talk to you, but you can share that you’re ready to share your thinking and work together when they’re ready. Trying to coerce or threaten them into a quick reconciliation is likely to backfire and cause them to cutoff even more.

Focus on Managing Yourself (And Not Your Partner)

When someone we love is angry with us, often we feel compelled to appease and soothe them as quickly as possible. But we ultimately can’t control anyone’s thoughts, behaviors, or emotions—we’re only tasked with managing our own. Being calm is much more effective than trying to calm someone else, and people who can stay focused on managing their own anxiety and reactions give the other person the space to do the same. So instead of saying, “Please calm down!”, try taking a few deep breaths and slowing your own heart rate.

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Similarly, if you’re angry with your partner and want them to change a behavior, your attempt at controlling them is likely to produce a negative reaction. The goal is to share your thinking with the hope that you’ll be heard, not to shame the other person. Remember, it’s unlikely that you will be heard if your words and behaviors are lighting up the fear-response in your partner’s brain. Immaturity begets immaturity so often in relationships. It might feel critical to send a rude text to your partner while they’re at work or wake them up in the middle of the night with your grievances, but these strategies rarely accomplish more than escalating a conflict.

Be Aware of Triangles

When you’re furious or peeved at a partner, it can feel cathartic to complain to a friend, your child, or even your therapist. When we use a third person to manage our stress about another, this is often called an emotional triangle. Wanting to vent is completely human and it is not wrong. But sometimes this “triangling” keeps us from working out the problem in the original relationship and it can leave your partner feeling isolated or even make them more defensive. So the next time you’re upset with your spouse, and you’re tempted to pick up the phone, ask yourself, “Am I asking for help or just looking for someone to agree with me?” If it’s the latter, maybe try calming yourself down before asking for someone else to do so. And while there’s nothing wrong with sharing relationship conflict with your therapist, be aware that it’s their job to be neutral and help you do your best thinking—not to agree with you that your partner is the villain of the story.

Look Past the Issues

As individuals, there are certain topics which are likely to ignite an angry reaction or an anxious reaction that can lead to conflict. Often these are topics like money, politics, religion, sex, parenting, or family drama. It’s easy to assume that having different opinions can produce anger and conflict, but more often it’s our immature reactions to these topics rather than our actual opinions. So rather than getting hung up on resolving conflict as quickly as possible, shift your focus back to responding as maturely as you possibly can. This doesn’t mean you need to put up with abuse or volatility from a partner, or even than you have to stay in a relationship. Maturity simply looks like being willing to not let your emotions totally run the show. It looks like asking, “What is the best version of myself doing in this situation?” And you’re unlikely to see your best self slamming doors or screaming at people you love.

If you feel overwhelmed by the amount of anger in your romantic relationship, remind yourself that you are 50% of the equation. If you’re calmer and more mature, then your relationship will be calmer and more mature. Perhaps your partner will rise to the same level of maturity, or perhaps you’ll realize that the relationship isn’t right for you. Either way, you’re choosing not to let anger run the show. When one person can make that choice for themselves, they’re likely to find a partner who can do the same.

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Anxiety and Anger — How to Cool the Fire

If you want to see a good example of anger and anxiety traveling hand in hand, all you have to do is glance into the cars next to you at a traffic light during morning rush hour.

Often on the way to work, Jerilyn Ross, MA, a psychotherapist who is president of the Anxiety Disorders Association of America and director of the Ross Center for Anxiety & Related Disorders in Washington, D.C., will see people whose emotions are obviously running high. Perhaps they’re agitated, they’re stuck in traffic, they woke up late, or they have a looming deadline at work. “When people feel anxious, the body is secreting stress hormones and the adrenaline is pumping, and if anything gets in the way, they may get angry and frustrated and snap easily at people,” she says.

Anger and Anxiety: An Aggravating Combination

Anxiety disorders and anger can interact with each other in different ways, says Ross, the author of One Less Thing to Worry About. For example:

  • When people are anxious for an extended period of time, they may not be sleeping well, eating right, or enjoying the activities that help them stay calm and happy. As a result, they may be particularly sensitive to small problems that normally wouldn’t make them angry, explains Ross.
  • Some people are rigid in their routines, and they’re most comfortable when their environment stays the same day after day. “When something disrupts that, there are people who don’t know how to handle the change and will often have outbursts of anger, sometimes it seems for no reason,” she says.
  • In addition, some people may have an angry personality, and when they don’t get what they want when they want it, they become impatient and anxious. “It becomes a vicious cycle. They’re angry about something, and they get anxious. The more anxious they get, the more angry they get,” says Ross.

Anger and Anxiety: New Ways to Respond

Anger is a natural method that humans developed long ago to respond to physical threats. However, unleashing our temper is generally regarded as an unacceptable way of coping with anger and anxiety these days.

When working with clients who have anger issues, Ross may suggest the following methods of responding in a more coolheaded manner:

  • Keep a diary. By jotting down the times when you become angry and the events going on in your life leading up to these moments, you can better recognize when you’re likely to get upset in a situation. This can give you time to respond in a healthier manner. Maintaining a journal for a few weeks is a good place to start, Ross says.
  • Plan alternatives. Do a little role-playing and imagine a situation that has made you angry — perhaps it’s when your spouse came home late. Instead of greeting your loved one with a screaming tirade, ask yourself, what are some other ways to address the situation? Maybe when you hit one of these bumps in the road, you should plan to take 10 minutes before speaking to cool off and let your stress hormones subside. Go drink a glass of water. Or call a friend on the phone, Ross recommends.
  • Breathe deeply. Often when we get anxious or angry we tend to hold our breath or take rapid, shallow breaths, Ross says. This just makes us feel even more tense, she says. “I find that one of the most powerful stress reducers that you can do in the moment is to just allow your breathing to flow deep into your diaphragm. Even if it means walking away, taking those cleansing breaths is helpful to people,” she says.

Anxiety and anger can be a harmful combination. Fortunately, finding better ways to cope can diffuse both emotions.

Control Anger – The Hidden Anxiety Symptom

Anxiety and anger may not seem related. Anxiety is often associated with fear, and fear is considered by many to be the opposite of anger – something that people may feel they need in order to attack danger. Sometimes behind the anger are actually feelings of worry and fear, and the anger itself can become a further source of anxiety. Some people who struggle with anger may have a hard time expressing their worries and concerns. They may feel “weak” doing so and have had very little practice asking for help. Becoming angry may have become the way they express their feelings.

But for some people their anger is a symptom of underlying anxiety, and that anger may actually be directly related to the physiological reaction that occurs when faced with dangerous situations.

Anger and Anxiety

Anger can have many triggers. Interestingly, the anger itself may be a cause of anxiety on its own. Many people experience profound anxiety as a result of their anger episodes, due to their fear of losing control and the stress that they experience in their life as a result of that anger.

Why Am I Angry for No Reason?

Anger can be hard to understand. But it rarely occurs for completely “no reason.” Usually, when a person experiences anger, it it may relate to them feeling overwhelmed, powerless, scared, or threatened. There can be many potential causes. But there are also potential solutions. We explore these below.

Causes of Anger Anxiety

Anxiety itself is the emotion caused by the activation of the fight/flight response in the body. It can become unhelpful in situations where the physical effects of fight or flight are not advantageous (e.g. Not a survival situation) or the response continues for a longer time. That creates a variety of unwanted physical and mental experiences that can impact your quality of life.

But the fight/flight system is called that for a reason. Once it’s activated, it triggers the physiological responses that are thought to enhance survival in a dangerous situation – to react with the bodily tools necessary to flee or or to to fight.

But when the fight or flight system is activated without the presence of physical danger, the emotions a person experiences can be more complex than fear alone. For example:

  • Irritation Anxiety is an emotion that can make you sensitive to becoming annoyed and irritated. Irritation is also a negative experience that can trigger anger. Those that have constant irritation may feel bothered by others, and respond by becoming angry, or they may be frustrated by anxiety in general and anger becomes an outlet.
  • Loss of Control Anger is also a natural response for many when they don’t feel they’re in control. Anxiety can make people feel as though they are losing control. This is especially common in panic attacks, along with other anxiety disorders. Many people that suffer from anger issues may be experiencing the effects of no longer feeling in control of their lives.
  • Desire to Pass Blame One response that some people have to stress is the feeling that others are contributing to it, especially when that stress is so hard to understand – like with anxiety. This may cause people to pass blame – intentionally or unintentionally – to others as a way of explaining away their unusual symptoms.

In addition, it’s important to remember that while anger can be a symptom of anxiety, it can also be a cause. Those with anger issues may cause stresses in their life, such as upsetting those close to them, that leads to further stress and anxiety. This can become a cycle of anger and anxiety.

Controlling Anger From Anxiety

When anxiety results in anger, it can be very frustrating. It’s not necessarily something that can simply be controlled and reduced right away. It often takes a great deal of time and effort, as well as a commitment to ensure that you’re able to control this symptom. You’ll have to work on two separate issues:

  • Managing Your Anger
  • Managing Your Anxiety

Even though anger is the result of your anxiety, you’ll still want to learn how to handle situations where anxiety is present. Some amount of stress and anxiety is natural, but if it’s getting in the way of your life it may be something to address.

How to Control Your Anger

Anger management classes can be immensely beneficial, but let’s look at other ways to control your anger from anxiety. You’ll want to focus on learning how to react to your anxiety in a way that isn’t anger related. Consider the following:

  • Anger Thoughts Journaling Often anger builds up, and leads to thoughts that are hard to control. Journaling (writing out thoughts in a journal) gives you a place to express all of those angry thoughts before they become bottled up, so your mind stops focusing on them as often.
  • Close Eyes/Slow Breathing When the anger comes from irritation, or because you feel like you’re losing control, you need to find a quick way to take a step back. Start by closing your eyes (if it’s safe to do so), because this reduces the visual stimulation around you. Then, start slow breathing to calm your heart rate and reduce your strong negative emotions.
  • Be Mindful It may also help to teach yourself mindfulness, which is the ability to stay present in the moment and be aware of your emotions and thoughts. By learning mindfulness, you give yourself an opportunity to analyze how you feel and potentially challenge those thoughts so that you can calm yourself down.

These are only temporary solutions because you’ll still need to control the anxiety itself. But they’ll at least get you started in learning to respond to issues without anger.

How to Control Your Anxiety

Because anger, in this case, is an anxiety problem, you’ll need to learn to control your anxiety altogether if you want to stop feeling angry.

There are several effective stress reduction strategies, including:

  • Deep Breathing
  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation
  • Yoga

All forms of exercise are crucial for controlling both anxiety and anger as well, because they’re used to reduce pent up energy and frustration in a way that few other things can.

But you’ll also need to focus on simply learning to understand how to cope with anxiety and stress in a way that works for you. Coping is your brain’s ability to simply get over a problem without making it a big deal. It’s something that can be learned, but only if you are able to recognize the causes of your anxiety and how to adapt to them.

Make Sure You’re Safe

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Maybe you’ve finally pinpointed it. Maybe, like me, you’ve realized that all the screaming and yelling — especially at your kids — wasn’t you turning into a rage monster or developing a sudden anger management problem. You’ve realized that instead of being angry, you’re actually terrified. Like my psychiatrist explained it, you’re deeply anxious, your anxiety leads to stress, and that stress spills out as anger. In private, I’ve punched walls. I’ve screamed at my kids over the most trivial things, like spilling a water glass. I was terrified all the time. I needed help.

But what do you do when you figure out you may have an anxiety problem manifesting as anger — an issue serious enough to affect your family life and your children?

First, make sure this realization doesn’t bring up any dangerous thoughts of harming yourself. If it does, that’s okay — you aren’t crazy — but there are some steps that you absolutely must take. Wherever you are in the U.S., day or night or crack of dawn, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 (international numbers listed here). They are trained to help you deal with thoughts of self-hatred and self-loathing so deep you feel you have no other option than suicide. Remember that those thoughts aren’t you; they’re the anxiety talking. You do not deserve to die. You are not a bad person. You may have done some not-great things, but you were not in full control of yourself and you don’t need annihilation, you need help.

Get Help

There are three paths you can take when it comes to getting help. You can contact your family doctor. You can find a therapist. Or you can go straight to a psychiatrist.

Your Primary Care Provider

Your primary care provider will likely be able to see you the soonest. They will assess you for depression and anxiety, and most likely send you away with their first line of defense: medication. One in 6 Americans now take some form of psychiatric drug, mostly antidepressants, though family docs are less likely to prescribe the heavy-hitting, risk-of-addiction benzodiazepines such as Xanax and Klonopin (the only things that help my anxiety and rage).

This sounds pretty good, but it can be a problem. Patients getting medication from primary care providers were less likely to be in psychotherapy — which can be extremely beneficial. And according to the American Psychological Association, antidepressants aren’t as effective as we’re lead to believe. Steven Paul, MD, a neuroscientist who heads the Appel Institute for Alzheimer’s Research at Weill Cornell Medical College in New York City, explains, “Medication treatment is but one way to treat depression. It’s not necessarily the best way or the only way.” In many cases, the APA argues, psychotherapy could be as effective as a drug.

Finding a Therapist

So you need to find a therapist. The easiest way is to ask friends and family. You can also ask your PCP, if you’ve decided to go that route; they likely have a coterie of therapists they prefer. If you mesh well with your doc, you’ll likely mesh well with one of their therapist picks. I found my sainted psychiatrist via an OB-GYN — another avenue if you’re newly postpartum.

You can also use online services to find a therapist. While there are many services offering “on-call” therapists you can see for a certain (high) fee per month, other pages also contain lists of therapists in your area. I particularly like Psychology Today’s therapist finder, where you can search by city, insurance, and mental health issues. I found many therapists for anxiety in my own small town — men and women, with lots of experience and without, all of which took my insurance.

Remember, a therapist isn’t there to provide you with medication, but to help you change your behavior and thought patterns. That way you can better cope with negative thoughts and stop negative actions. Research and meta-analyses (or studies of studies) have proven again and again that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is the most effective means of accomplishing this. Dialectical behavioral therapy, a form of CBT, also has a great track record in helping to reach these goals. While these aren’t the only types of therapy, they’re good places to start.

Finding a Psychiatrist

But maybe you feel like you need something more than a therapist and a PCP — you need both wrapped into one. That’s the choice I made, and I’m deeply, deeply glad I made it. I see a wonderful psychiatrist, one who fits me in during rare emergencies, and other than that who sees me on an every-other-month basis for a baseline check and some psychotherapy. She prescribes my medication and knows about medication because it’s her job. I was a particularly difficult case to treat, and she finally found the magic dose that would work for me (currently two Klonopin in the morning and one in the afternoon if needed, plus Wellbutrin). She also discovered my ADHD, which wasn’t helping anxiety at all, and treats that too.

The best way to find a psychiatrist is the same as finding a therapist: Ask for a referral from your PCP, which your insurance may need to cover the visit. You can also canvas family and friends and check the internet. Lifescript’s doctor directory gave me some good results, but only names and numbers — not pics or therapeutic orientations. But it’s somewhere to begin, at least, especially if you’re in a small town.

So How to Pay for This?

The Affordable Care Act guarantees mental health care parity. That means that insurance has to cover “behavioral health treatment, such as psychotherapy and counseling, and mental and behavioral health inpatient services.” Moreover, limits applied to mental health and substance abuse services can’t be more restrictive than limits applied to medical and surgical services. The limits covered by parity protections include: “Financial — like deductibles, copayments, coinsurance, and out-of-pocket limits; Treatment — like limits to the number of days or visits covered; Care management — like being required to get authorization of treatment before getting it.”

So if you have insurance, you should be able to get care if you can find someone to take your insurance. Many do not. My doc, for example, does not take insurance at all, and we have to pay out of pocket and then get reimbursed. It may require some phone calls and some paperwork — ask about sliding fee scales that many mental health care providers offer.

If you absolutely cannot pay for mental health care, you can look into options. Medicaid covers women with children under 6. There are free clinics available, and many of them offer mental health care services. There are also community mental health clinics, which you can find by contacting your local government. If absolutely none of these are an option, you can look for support groups, which while not optimal, can be a band-aid in the short term. And remember: Many, many therapists have a sliding-scale fee program even if they don’t advertise it. It never hurts to ask.

In the meantime, watch out for natural cures that may not work. Essential oils, gut detoxing, homeopathic treatments, and the like may help some people, and may help with some of the physical symptoms (headaches, nausea, tense muscles), but they are not a cure for the mental illness. Don’t be fooled into paying money you don’t have for a cure that’s suspicious at best. If your funds are limited, then they are far better served being spent on professional help versus homeopathic products.

And don’t fall prey to the Big-Pharma-Is-Evil lie either. Psychiatric drugs have saved many, many lives, including my own. With the right drug at the right dose, you will not turn into a zombie or wake up in the middle of the night to snarf the contents of your fridge. If you need them, drugs can work wonders.

You can get help. You are not your anger. You are not your anxiety. You are strong and brave. You can fight this and can get back to a life without constant fear and rage. You are not a bad mother. You are a mother fighting as hard, hard, hard as she can for her babies. You’ve realized your problem — that’s the first step in the fight. Now take the next.

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I’ve always been on the “fight” end of the “fight or flight” scale. When I’m scared, I get mad. When I fear something or feel threatened, it makes me truly furious. I deal with anxiety on a daily basis, and it wasn’t until recently that I connected my propensity toward anger with that aspect of my mental health.

When the realization hit me that my anger has a direct relationship with my anxiety, it was like a million puzzle pieces fell perfectly into place. Anxiety is strongly tied to our fears, so how we personally react to fear (i.e. with anger) can therefore also explain our reactions to anxiety.

Exhibit A: I recently had to have a small procedure done at the doctor, and my boyfriend offered to come as support. I wanted to leave for the appointment early. Maybe too early for some people (like my boyfriend) who err on the fashionably late side of things, but I didn’t want to risk showing up past the exact time I was due (if not several minutes earlier). I had been building up this procedure in my head for weeks, and it had been a major source of anxiety for me.

When the realization hit me that my anger has a direct relationship with my anxiety, it was like a million puzzle pieces fell perfectly into place.

My boyfriend kindly offered to accompany me, but it was because of him that we ended up running “behind” (read: we weren’t 15 minutes early). Anger flared up inside of me, all directed at him. He chose the cab when I wanted to take public transportation, and now we were stuck in traffic! This was his fault! I was shaking with fear that we would be late. Every time we hit a red light, my stomach sank. Why wasn’t the driver taking side roads? Doesn’t anyone know how to DRIVE in this city? In a rage, I Google-mapped how long it would have taken if we had gone my way instead of his, and I was one click away from sending my boyfriend the cold, hard proof that it would have made eight minutes difference! when I took a breath and refrained from pressing the button. My partner had just taken the morning off of work to come with me because I was so nervous. He was paying for the cab so I didn’t stress about money. My anger was misdirected. Why did I actually feel so mad? Well, I was scared about what was going to happen at the doctor’s appointment, and my anxiety took the ugly form of anger, which spewed itself in the direction of someone who was an innocent bystander.

Similar scenarios like this have played out for as long as I can remember, which in hindsight explains a lot, since I’ve dealt with anxiety for as long as I can remember.

Why Does Anxiety Manifest as Anger?

Anyone who deals with anxiety knows the racing thoughts and inexplicable fear that accompany it. They know the mind-numbing panic that sets in at any given moment. They know the frustration you feel when no one, including you, understands where your feelings are coming from.

One of the scariest aspects of anxiety is the sentiment that we’re not in control of what’s happening to us. A natural response to feeling that loss of control is anger. We lash out at or against what we don’t know or understand, whether it be horrible intrusive thoughts, physical feelings we’re having, people associated with the situation, or, most of all, ourselves.

Extreme stress as a result of work or problems in my personal life doesn’t make me upset or sad — it makes me want to shout or throw my hands in the air. Confrontations with other people, especially ones I really care about, give me extreme anxiety. So, what do I do when I’m arguing with my significant other? The more worried I get about whether we’ll find a resolution, the more likely it is that the disagreement will turn into me raising my voice and becoming irrationally upset because my panic peaks and my reaction (though admittedly unhelpful) escalates in correlation with the levels of anxiety I experience.

So, What Should We Do?

Well, for me, the first step is acknowledging my natural inclination to skew my anxiety into anger. Taking a step back when I’m feeling overly anxious and recognizing that the stress of the situation has boiled over into anger helps me get perspective on where these feelings are actually coming from.

Anger is a reaction to anxiety; it’s almost like a defence mechanism for some, myself included. Anger provides us another option for dealing with anxiety that can make us somehow feel a little less helpless than curling up in a ball of fear, which is often what we really want to do. I’m not saying anger is any better, but understanding the root of it has been a huge help in allowing me to address both my anxiety and my anger.

When you feel the frustration rising, take deep breaths, write it down, or just step away from the situation. I know, I know — easier said than done. Still, know that it works both ways; while anger can be a symptom of anxiety, giving into that anger can also cause us to feel more anxious. Take healthy measures to control your anxiety like meditation, yoga, exercise, professional help, or even reading. If your anger and anxiety go hand in hand, you’ll find that working on one will in turn help you confront the other.

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Link Between Anger and Anxiety?

A new study suggests anger is a powerful emotion that intensifies anxiety and compromises therapy leading to serious health consequences.

Researchers from Concordia University discovered anger can exacerbate symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), a condition that affects millions of individuals.

Sonya Deschênes investigated the subject after conducting a literature review for her Ph.D. research. In her review of published studies she realized that anger and anxiety were linked, yet poorly understood.

“This was surprising to me because irritability, which is part of the anger family, is a diagnostic feature of Generalized Anxiety Disorder,” she explains.

GAD is a serious affliction characterized by excessive and uncontrollable worry about everyday things.

It often interferes with a person’s ability to function normally. Individuals suffering from GAD typically anticipate disaster, and are overly concerned about everyday issues, such as health, money, and relationships.

Deschênes and her colleagues reviewed how specific components of anger — hostility, physical and verbal aggression, anger expression and anger control — contribute to GAD.

To do this, the team assessed more than 380 participants for GAD symptoms and their tendency to respond to anger-inducing scenarios.

Researcher’s assessed individual response to statements as, “I strike out at whatever infuriates me” and “I boil inside, but I don’t show it.”

The study, which was recently published in the journal Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, found that in the 131 participants who exhibited GAD symptoms, higher levels of anger and its various dimensions were associated with worry and anxiety.

Furthermore, hostility and internalized anger contributed to the severity of their GAD symptoms.

Experts believe this suggests that anger and anxiety go hand in hand, and that heightened levels of anger are uniquely related to GAD status.

Even more, internalized anger expression — boiling inside without showing it — is a stronger predictor of GAD than other forms of anger.

Deschênes acknowledges that more research is needed to understand why anger and anxiety tend to co-occur.

Researchers believe a possible explanation for the associated between anger and anxiety link is that, “when a situation is ambiguous, such that the outcome could be good or bad, anxious individuals tend to assume the worst.

“That often results in heightened anxiety. There is also evidence of that same thought process in individuals who are easily angered. Therefore, anger and GAD may be two manifestations of the same biased thought process.”

Deschênes also argues that symptoms of anger could get in the way of the treatment for anxiety, which often employs cognitive-behavioral therapy.

“If anger and hostility are contributing to the maintenance of symptoms, and these are not targeted during treatment, these people may not be benefiting as much from that treatment,” Deschênes said.

“It’s my hope that, by furthering our understanding of the role of anger in GAD, we can improve treatment outcomes for individuals with this disorder.”

Source: Concordia University

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Link Between Anger and Anxiety?

Do I Have Anger Issues? How to Identify and Treat an Angry Outlook

Many things can trigger anger, including stress, family problems, and financial issues.

For some people, anger is caused by an underlying disorder, such as alcoholism or depression. Anger itself isn’t considered a disorder, but anger is a known symptom of several mental health conditions.

The following are some of the possible causes of anger issues.


Anger can be a symptom of depression, which is characterized as ongoing feelings of sadness and loss of interest lasting at least two weeks.

Anger can be suppressed or overtly expressed. The intensity of the anger and how it’s expressed varies from person to person.

If you have depression, you may experience other symptoms. These include:

  • irritability
  • loss of energy
  • feelings of hopelessness
  • thoughts of self-harm or suicide

Obsessive compulsive disorder

Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder that’s characterized by obsessive thoughts and compulsive behavior. A person with OCD has unwanted, disturbing thoughts, urges, or images that drive them to do something repetitively.

For example, they may perform certain rituals, such as counting to a number or repeating a word or phrase, because of an irrational belief that something bad will happen if they don’t.

A 2011 study found that anger is a common symptom of OCD. It affects approximately half of people with OCD.

Anger may result from frustration with your inability to prevent obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors, or from having someone or something interfere with your ability to carry out a ritual.

Alcohol abuse

Research shows that drinking alcohol increases aggression. Anger is a contributing factor in approximately half of all violent crimes committed in the United States.

Alcohol abuse, or alcoholism, refers to consuming too much alcohol at once or regularly.

Alcohol impairs your ability to think clearly and make rational decisions. It affects your impulse control and can make it harder for you to control your emotions.

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder marked by symptoms such as inattention, hyperactivity, and or impulsivity.

Symptoms usually start in early childhood and continue throughout a person’s life. Some people are not diagnosed until adulthood, which is sometimes referred to as adult ADHD.

Anger and short temper can also occur in people of all ages with ADHD. Other symptoms include:

  • restlessness
  • problems focusing
  • poor time management or planning skills

Oppositional defiant disorder

Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) is a behavioral disorder that affects 1 to 16 percent of school-age children. Common symptoms of ODD include:

  • anger
  • hot temper
  • irritability

Children with ODD are often easily annoyed by others. They may be defiant and argumentative.

Bipolar disorder

Bipolar disorder is a brain disorder that causes dramatic shifts in your mood.

These intense mood shifts can range from mania to depression, although not everyone with bipolar disorder will experience depression. Many people with bipolar disorder may experience periods of anger, irritability, and rage.

During a manic episode, you may:

  • be easily agitated
  • feel euphoric
  • have racing thoughts
  • engage in impulsive or reckless behavior

During a depressive episode, you may:

  • feel sad, hopeless, or tearful
  • lose interest in things once enjoyed
  • have thoughts of suicide

Intermittent explosive disorder

A person with intermittent explosive disorder (IED) has repeated episodes of aggressive, impulsive, or violent behavior. They may overreact to situations with angry outbursts that are out of proportion to the situation.

Episodes last less than 30 minutes and come on without warning. People with the disorder may feel irritable and angry most of the time.

Some common behaviors include:

  • temper tantrums
  • arguments
  • fighting
  • physical violence
  • throwing things

People with IED may feel remorseful or embarrassed after an episode.


Anger is one of the stages of grief. Grief can come from the death of a loved one, a divorce or breakup, or from losing a job. The anger may be directed at the person who died, anyone else involved in the event, or inanimate objects.

Other symptoms of grief include:

  • shock
  • numbness
  • guilt
  • sadness
  • loneliness
  • fear

Frustrated; frustration; easily annoyed, angered, or upset; impatient; quick to react anxiety symptoms

Written by: Jim Folk.
Medically reviewed by: Marilyn Folk, BScN.
Last updated: November 12, 2019

Anxiety Frustration; Frustrated; Easily Annoyed anxiety symptom descriptions:

  • You find yourself feeling more frustrated and annoyed than normal.
  • It can also seem as if your patience runs out more quickly.
  • It can also seem like you are disappointed more quickly and more often than normal.
  • Even what would normally be considered minor issues now make you highly upset, annoyed, and angry.
  • It feels like you are overly quick to react.
  • It seems like you are more easily disappointed.
  • You find your frustration is like a hair-trigger, with any little irritant setting you off.
  • It seems like people frustrate you much more than normal.
  • It seems things upset you more than normal.
  • It seems like everything is much more frustrating than normal.

Anxiety frustration can come and go rarely, occur frequently, or persist indefinitely. For example, you may feel easily frustrated once in a while and not that often, feel easily frustrated off and on, or feel frustrated all the time.

Anxiety frustration may precede, accompany, or follow an escalation of other anxiety sensations and symptoms, or occur by itself.

Anxiety frustration can precede, accompany, or follow an episode of nervousness, anxiety, fear, and elevated stress, or occur ‘out of the blue’ and for no apparent reason.

Anxiety frustration can range in intensity from slight, to moderate, to severe. It can also come in waves, where it’s strong one moment and eases off the next.

Anxiety frustration can change from day to day, and/or from moment to moment.

Anxiety frustration is often experienced as an ‘episode’ where you feel fine one moment and overly frustrated the next.

All of the above combinations and variations are common for the anxiety frustration symptom.

What causes the anxiety frustration symptom?

Stress, including anxiety-caused stress, can make normal day-to-day challenges seem more difficult, taxing, and frustrating. Some of the reasons for this include:

1. Anxious personalities have typically learned to approach life in a highly analytical manner (how else could one avoid all of the potential pitfalls and dangers in life).

Consequently, they often think through issues and challenges quickly. When stress is in the normal range, anxious personalities can be patient with others as they analyze at a ‘less effective pace.’ But when anxiousness increases stress, anxious personalities can become more impatient with the ‘less effective pace’ of others, which can result in becoming more easily frustrated.

2. Behaving anxiously activates the stress response, and the stress response can cause a heightened sense of urgency.

This heightened sense of urgency can cause anxious personalities to want to analyze quicker and more effectively. But if others aren’t living up to your expectations of doing things more ‘quickly and effectively,’ you might become more easily frustrated with the less effective pace of others. And, as anxiousness and hyperstimulation increase, so can the urge to do things more quickly and effectively, which can cause an increasing sense of frustration.

When you combine this factor with the previous point, many anxious personalities become more easily frustrated as their anxiety and stress elevate.

3. An increase in anxiety and stress often causes an increase in impatience.

As impatience increases, so can frustration.

4. Hyperstimulation can also cause overly dramatic emotional responses.

A great many, if not all, anxious personalities go by their emotions and feelings a lot. So when the messages they receive are amplified, they typically respond to them in an amplified way. The more hyperstimulated their bodies become, the more reactive and emotional they become. As emotional reactions increase, so can frustration.

5. Hyperstimulation can cause emotional instability.

Elevated stress, such as that from stress-response hyperstimulation, can cause emotions to become erratic, unstable, and unpredictable.

For example, many anxiety disorder sufferers experience emotional blunting (no emotions, flat emotions, emotionless), flipping (suddenly going from one mood to another), or spiking (super emotional – sorrowful, fearful, excited, depressed) as their hyperstimulation increases.

As emotions become erratic and unpredictable, many people become concerned and troubled about them. This additional concern causes more stimulation and emotional instability, which can cause an increase in frustration, as well.

6. Overly dramatic emotional responses and emotional instability further stress the body, which can lead to even higher levels of hyperstimulation.

Consequently, another negative cycle can ensue: hyperstimulation causes stimuli to become amplified – amplified messages cause emotional overreaction – emotional overreaction and concern about emotional overreaction cause further hyperstimulation – further hyperstimulation causes further amplification, and so on. As hyperstimulation increases, so can impatience and frustration.

(Recovery Support members can learn more reasons under the ‘Frustration’ symptom in Symptoms chapter (Chapter 9) in the Recovery Support area.)

Yes, stress-response hyperstimulation can cause everyday situations and circumstances to seem more irritating, frustrating, and stressful. This is a common consequence associated with a struggle with problematic anxiety.

Nevertheless, understanding this phenomenon can provide an important key to recovery, as well as eliminating the anxiety frustration symptom.

How to get rid of the anxiety frustration symptom?

Reducing your body’s hyperstimulated state so that it can return to normal health should be your number one goal. As your body returns to normal, non-hyperstimulated health, it functions normally, which reduces impatience and frustration.

Keep in mind that it can take a long time for the body to recover from the negative effects of abnormal stress once the body becomes stress-response hyperstimulated. We have to persevere with our recovery strategies in spite of the lack of apparent progress and remain patient as the body works toward recovery.

It’s also important to deal with your anxiety issues so that your body can recover from stress-response hyperstimulation. Working with an experienced anxiety disorder therapist is the most effective way to identify and successfully address the many underlying factors are the root of problematic anxiety.

(Recovery Support members can receive a more detailed answer under the ‘Frustration’ symptom in the Symptoms chapter (Chapter 9) in the Recovery Support area).

Short-term strategies for frustration anxiety:

Even though lasting success only comes about by addressing Level Two recovery, there are some short-term strategies that can alleviate some of anxiety’s common symptoms, such as a heightened sense of frustration. For example:

Taking frequent rest and relaxation breaks, as well as getting good sleep, can help reduce irritability, impatience, and frustration. Moreover, if you find yourself becoming frustrated, you may want to take a break from the interaction and go for a walk to cool down. Anything you can do to keep your emotions in check will help to prevent unwanted emotional outbursts and the stress they can cause the body and others.

Furthermore, dealing with your unrealistic expectations can also help reduce irritability, impatience, and frustration. Working with an experienced anxiety disorder therapist is the most effective way of addressing the underlying factors of anxiety, including the behaviors unrealistic expectations and impatience.

Also, resting the body and getting good sleep can help stabilize raw emotions. Emotional stability can buffer against irritability and frustration.

Last, it can also help to let family members know you are having some difficulty with anxiety-related frustration and that you are working on it. Sometimes an apology and this understanding alone can help others better understand what you are dealing with, which can make your situation easier.

For a more detailed explanation about all anxiety symptoms, why symptoms can persist long after the stress response has ended, common barriers to recovery and symptom elimination, and more recovery strategies and tips, we have many chapters that address this information in the Recovery Support area of our website.

The combination of good self-help information and working with an experienced anxiety disorder therapist is the most effective way to address anxiety disorder and its many symptoms. Until the core causes of anxiety are addressed – the underlying factors that motivate apprehensive behavior – a struggle with anxiety disorder can return again and again. Identifying and successfully addressing anxiety’s underlying factors is the best way to overcome problematic anxiety.

Additional Resources:

  • For a comprehensive list of Anxiety Disorders Symptoms Signs, Types, Causes, Diagnosis, and Treatment.
  • Anxiety and panic attacks symptoms can be powerful experiences. Find out what they are and how to stop them.
  • How to stop an anxiety attack and panic.
  • Free online anxiety tests to screen for anxiety. Two minute tests with instant results. Such as:
    • Anxiety Test
    • Anxiety Disorder Test
    • OCD Test
    • Social Anxiety Test
    • Generalized Anxiety Test
  • Anxiety 101 is a summarized description of anxiety, anxiety disorder, and how to overcome it.

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The relationship between social anxiety disorder and a bad temper

Many of my clients indicate they struggle with both social anxiety disorder and a bad temper. Studies have shown that social anxiety is associated with less happiness and joy and more undesirable states such as sadness and anger. Although it is unclear if this anger and unpleasantness is caused by social anxiety or if the negative emotions are what contribute to the social anxiety. (Kashdan, May2010)

Additionally, studies have shown a relationship between anxiety and anger across all anxiety disorders; What are some reasons for the relationship between social anxiety disorder and a bad temper? If this is a problem you or someone you love suffers from what can you do?

Social anxiety disorder and a bad temper. Rumination.

One of the factors that is associated with increased anger seems to be the process of rumination or brooding. Ruminating is when you obsessively think about something over and over but do not successfully problem solve the situation or resolve it. The more one does this the higher the likelihood they will struggle with anger problems. Rumination has been associated with social anxiety also. Mindfulness treatment that targets the rumination may be a strategy that is helpful for people who suffer from anger and social anxiety(Alden, Dec2009). Learn more about rumination by clicking here.

Social anxiety and a bad temper. The role of assertiveness.

Some theories have suggested that poor communication skills contribute to social anxiety (Weber 2004.)Assertiveness, or the ability to directly communicate what you feel think and need, is one of these skills. Those who lack this skill often feel angry and unhappy with others due to their failure to meet their expectations and needs. Anger can be a result of this dynamic. Training someone who has social anxiety to learn how to be assertive in their relationships is a strategy used to decrease anger.

Social anxiety disorder and a bad temper. Co- morbidity with other disorders.

Most people who have social anxiety are also suffering from depression. The isolation and sense of loss of control social anxiety causes can certainly contribute to depression. Depression often manifests itself as anger and irritability, especially in men. Additionally social anxiety can impair relationships, the ability to perform in the workplace, and a person’s sense of self esteem. This stress can result in depression. Treating the underlying depression with an antidepressant or mood stabilizer can often help with anger. Additionally treatment that also focuses on depression can help with anger.

Social anxiety disorder and a bad temper. Anger directed at people who make social requests.

People with social anxiety disorder, and other forms of anxiety as well, resist situations where there anxiety may be triggered. Many people who have anxiety become angry or hostile when others make a request of them that provokes their anxiety. This is part of the fight or flight response that so often describes how and why we react to anxiety provoking situations. Most research studies , however, have not focused on the fight component of anxiety as much as the flight. Teaching people about the fight or flight mechanism can help them to gain an awareness of this. Additionally relaxation strategies can be employed to decrease the likeliness of this occurring.

Social anxiety disorder and a bad temper. Shame.

Feeling disconnected, rejected and shamed may also leads to anger in people who suffer from social anxiety. Treatment includes teaching the client to accurately read social cues, and a set of social skills to interact more effectively with others so that their experiences are more rewarding.

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