Sex games for 2

Some people say sex and smartphones don’t mix. But hear me out.

No longer an intimacy killer, foreplays apps will turn your smartphone into your new favorite sex toy.

From controlling a vibrator, to helping you talk dirty, exploring each other’s bodies in new ways, and much more, once you download these apps on your phone, getting off will be better (and easier) than ever.

Here are the seven foreplay apps and sex game apps we recommend for turning your sex life up a notch:


1. Dirty Game – Hot Truth or Dare

Sex game app, Dirty Game: A saucy way to break the ice.

Image: Dirty Game

Dirty Game – Hot Truth or Dare takes a classic game to a new level. We dare you to try it.

Whether you like to keep it innocent or X-rated, there is a category for every level of desire, including Classic, Romantic, Flirt, Icebreaker, Foreplay and Sex.

The truth questions, such as “share a naughty fantasy you’ve never told anyone about,” are a great way to get comfortable talking dirty and communicating with your partner(s). Dares, such as “spank the ass of the other player,” can easily help you get started.

This app is great for couples because it covers the entire sexual gamut, from touching to penetration. You can also choose group mode, perfect for parties, threesomes and beyond.

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store.

2. Kindu

A foreplay app that offers an easy way to communicate your desires.

Image: Kindu

Do you Kindu? Kindu is like Tinder for couples that are open to trying new things. After you both create an account (don’t worry, it stays private) and pair with each other, you and your partner swipe through over 100 naughty suggestions that you can like, dislike or say maybe to. If you both say yes, it’s a match. You can even throw your own ideas into the deck.

This foreplay app is a great tool for couples that might be a little hesitant to communicate their sexual desires with each other directly.

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store and Google Play.

3. OhMiBod

OhMiBod is an app for couples that connects to a variety of vibrators, providing a new way your partner can help you get in the mood. Because it works over Bluetooth and Wi-Fi, OhMiBod can also help long-distance couples stay physical, even if they are on different continents.

There are five different modes to choose from: Rhythm, Touch, Tap, Wave and Voice. Each controls the vibrator in a unique way. For example, the Tap mode lets you set a vibrational program by tapping your finger on the screen. Wave mode will increase or decrease the intensity of the vibration based on the angle of your phone.

Additionally, the app has a log to track your orgasms, if that’s your goal. If you are looking for a fun challenge, why not try to break your record?

Price: Free in App Store and Google Play. (Vibrator sold separately.)

6. Desire

There are just so many options with this sex games for couples app!

Image: Desire app

Desire is a fun sex games for couples app that offers endless games to play with your partner. Users can send their partner thousands of “dares” from the sex game app’s database —which is uploaded weekly— or, write their own dares. Perfect for any competitive, game-loving couples!

If your partner accepts and completes your dare they receive a certain number of points. If they earn enough points, they’ll be able to unlock new levels and sexy challenges, and the same goes for you!

Couples can also send each other private messages through the app and keep a diary together to record fond memories and track which dares and challenges they’ve enjoyed the most.

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store and Google Play.

5. iKamasutra

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As its name suggests, iKamasutra is a sex position app that teaches anyone who downloads it the many different positions detailed in famed ancient Indian book, The Kama Sutra.

Users will be able to learn 110 most popular Kama Sutra positions — over 230 available in in-app purchases — in nine different categories and have access to soothing sitar music to set the mood, for the very low cost of $2.99. Plus, you’ll be able to save whatever positions you like best and track your mastery of The Kama Sutra over time.

And, users can even look up hot sex scenes from popular films on the sex position app to learn how to recreate them. We’re not super sure what this has to do with ancient Indian sex moves, but who cares, it’s hot.

Price: $2.99 with in-app purchase options in App Store and Google Play. (Free “lite” version also available.)

6. Pleasure Machine

Image: Pleasure machine app

Pleasure Machine is a slot machine for sexy time. Depending what your wheel lands on, the possibilities are seemingly endless. All you need to do is press the “spin” button.

The first wheel has a list of body parts from the neck all the way down to the feet. The second wheel has activities, such as “massage/stimulate” and “kiss with tongue.” The third wheel has a built-in timer, although if you are enjoying yourself, that is really more of a suggestion. There are a variety of modes to choose from, depending on what you are looking for, including Classic, Romantic, Playful, Wild and Flexible.

If you want to get creative, you can even make your own wheel of pleasure.

Price: $1.99 in App Store and Google Play.

7. Honi

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Honi is a sex app as much about spicing up your sex life as it is about tending to all aspects of your relationship.

While users can use the app to send each other sexy dares, share their fantasies, and learn new Kama Sutra positions, they can also use the app to take quizzes to learn more about each other, and find handy tips to help nurture their bond.

Couples can additionally swap private messages and pictures within the app, create a romantic timeline of their memories together, and send important date reminders to one another. Very helpful!

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store.

This story was originally published in 2016 and updated in 2018.

How can I spice up my sex life? It’s a question we get asked all the time, and one of the first things I recommend is playing a sensual sex game with your partner. It’s the perfect form of roleplay and is guaranteed to get your blood pumping. And if you’re competitive, it could get quite naughty.

I wanted to share some of my favorites with you. Most of these games don’t require any accessories, but if they do, I’ve made a list of what you’ll need. These couples sex games are all simple to play and can help even the shiest of people get in the mood.

#1 Fantasy Bowl

Want to find out more about your partner’s fantasies? Here’s a great way to do it.

You and your partner both write down five fantasies on slips of paper and throw the slips into a bowl. Shuffle the paper around and get into bed. Taking turns, each of you draws a piece of paper from the bowl, and you talk about the fantasy. You’ll learn more about each other and you’ll both be really turned on by the end.

What you’ll need:
– A bowl
– Ten slips of paper
– A pen

#2 Role-playing

Ever wanted to sleep with a firefighter, a convict, or a policeman? Role-playing will let you live out that fantasy.

A tried and true sex game, it’s the best way to spice up a relationship. Dress up and pretend to be whatever you want. One of the most common scenarios is the teacher-student relationship. She can dress up as the teacher and he has to put in some “extra work” to pass.

What you’ll need:
– Costumes and props

#3 Dirty Would-you-rather

If you’re feeling naughty, you’ll love the dirty talk that comes with it. A dirty twist on a classic game, ask each other dirty would-you-rather questions. Eventually, you won’t be able to keep your hands off of each other. Who knows, maybe he’ll finally give you a mind-blowing g-spot orgasm!

What you’ll need:
– Dirty thoughts

#4 Dirty Truth-or-dare

Another classic, although you might want to stick to dares for maximum pleasure. This is a great way to subtly tell your partner what you’re into. Dare each other to do naughty things you wouldn’t have the courage to ask for otherwise. This is the perfect chance for you to get out of your comfort zone!

What you’ll need:
– Creativity

#5 Strip Questions

Want to find out more about your partner while having some fun?

Ask each other questions (personal questions or trivia questions work), and whenever someone gets an answer wrong, they have to drink and take off a piece of clothing. You’ll be naked in no time.

What you’ll need:
– Sexy lingerie

#6 Sexy Notes

Want to keep your man excited all day long? Throughout the day, leavy sticky notes with sexy messages throughout the house for your partner to find. It’s a good way to build tension, and eventually, you won’t be able to resist ripping each other’s clothes off.

What you’ll need:
– Paper and a pen

#7 Blindfolds and Ice Cream

Food and sex go hand in hand, and this game proves it! The blindfolded partner has to feed the other ice cream, and if any ice cream falls onto their body, the blindfolded one has to lick it up. You could also use chocolate sauce. Yum!

What you’ll need:
– A blindfold
– Your favorite ice cream

#8 Tarzan and Jane

This is the perfect game for those who are into rough sex or conscious BDSM! You’ll need some ropes, scarves, or even handcuffs to play. The guy’s goal is to pin the girl down, tie her to the headboard, and penetrate her. The girl has to try and fight him off. Give it five minutes and you’ll both be hot and horny!

What you’ll need:
– Ropes or scarves

#9 Reenact Porn

Have you ever wanted to pretend to be a porn star? Reenacting porn is a great way to try new positions. Consider skimming through the video beforehand to make sure it’s something you’ll both enjoy.

Btw, I recommend making it look like a feminist porn! You’ll understand why once you check it out.

What you’ll need:
– Something to watch porn on

#10 Sexy Walk and Drive

This is for the exhibitionists out there. Take a walk wearing a thin t-shirt with no bra, while your boyfriend wears loose shorts with no underwear. If you want to be seen, walk into a store. When you get home, your adrenaline will be pumping and you won’t be able to resist each other.

What you’ll need:
– Revealing, sexy clothes

#11 Sexy Bucket List

You don’t want to have any regrets when you get older? Then work on your sexual bucket list. Make a bucket list with sex acts you haven’t done (or look one up online) and knock something off of the list. Some things you could try include having sex outside, learning Tantra or having a threesome!

What you’ll need:
– A bucket list!

#12 Never Have I Ever

Are you ready to reveal some of your deepest, darkest secrets? Play a game of never have I ever, but keep it sexual. You’ve never been tied up before? Prepare to be! You’ll find out things about each other you didn’t know and maybe end up trying some new things before the night is over.

What you’ll need:
– The willingness to try new things

#13 X marks the Spot

If you want every inch of your body worshipped, this is the game for you. You think of a spot on your body, and your partner has to kiss every part of your body until they find it. Another thing you can do is just let your man kiss everywhere before stopping him. Neither one of you will complain. Mmmm!

What you’ll need:
– The desire to be touched

#14 Pick a Card

Forget poker, play this sexy card game on your game night. First, you have to give each suit a different sex act. For example, hearts could be oral, and spades could be penetration. The number on the card is how many seconds you have to perform each act.

What you’ll need:
– A deck of cards

#15 Not so Fast

Lie on the bed naked and play with yourself, using toys if you’d like. Your partner has to stand at the doorway, and for every question he gets right, he gets to take a step closer. When they get one wrong, they have to take a step back.

What you’ll need:
– Sex toys

#16 Orgasm Contest

There’s nothing better than spending quality time with your boo. You and your partner masturbate next to each other, and whoever cums first has to help the other finish. The person who came first gets to request a sex act for round 2.

What you’ll need:
– Porn and sex toys (optional)

#17 Mirror Mirror

You and your partner stand facing each other, and taking turns, touch each other (I suggest kissing, licking, and touching certain areas. Leave oral and penetration for the finale). The receiving partner has to mimic on you what’s been done to them. It’s a good way to non-verbally tell your partner what you like.

What you’ll need:
– A dirty mind

#18 Keep It out to Get It In

This is the ultimate way to build tension, and we all know that it’s the recipe for a satisfying climax.

Set the timer on your phone to 20 minutes and fool around with each other. During those 20 minutes, no penetration is allowed. The prolonged teasing will leave you very excited.

What you’ll need:
– Self-control

#19 Overpower

There are no set rules for this game. All that matters is you and your partner have some sort of physical contact. I recommend naked wrestling, tickle fights, or naked pillow fights. When you’re done, you’ll both be sweaty and ready to go. The one who surrenders has to do whatever the winner likes.

What you’ll need:
– Pillows

#20 Choose Your Pleasure Tool

Do you like a challenge? Want your partner to impress you? Pick a sex toy and get your partner to try and make you cum with it. I recommend fleshlights, vibrators, and dildos for the most fun. Whether you climax or not, it’ll be great foreplay.

What you’ll need:– Your favorite sex toys

#21 Santa’s Bag

If you aren’t sure how to spice up your night, you’ll love his. Throw all of your sex toys into a bag, close your eyes, reach in and grab one. Whichever sex toy you pull out is what you and your partner are using for the night. This is a great way to ease the pressure of picking a sex toy.

What you’ll need:
– A bag or basket
– An assortment of sex toys

#22 Hide and Seek

There are a few different ways you can play this game, and here’s one of them. You and your partner get naked, one of you hides while the other seeks. When they find you, they get to do whatever they want to your body.

Another way you could play is to both go on opposite ends of the house, blindfold yourselves, and try to find each other using your voices while talking dirty.

What you’ll need:
– Somewhere to play

#23 Guess What This Is

Keep your partner guessing with this game, which involves a blindfold. One person is blindfolded and the other guides their hand to a point on their body. The blindfolded partner has to guess what they’re touching. The longer you tease each other, the better the sex will be.

What you’ll need:
– A blindfold

#24 Your Body Is a Canvas

Both you and your partner get naked, and using body-safe paint, draw on each other. You’ll learn to appreciate every single part of each other’s body. For added fun, use edible paint and lick it off of each other. Mmm.

What you’ll need:
– Body paint
– Paint brushes (optional)

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#25 Make Me Jealous

A small dose of jealousy is one way to have great sex. Have your partner tell you about someone they’re really into and describe what they would do to them. A more extreme version for secure relationships is to both go out on a date with someone else, come home, and talk about it. It could lead to some really passionate sex.

What you’ll need:
– Confidence

#26 What’s Your Fantasy

Another great way to get to know your partner, especially if you have a specific fantasy in mind. Simply talk about your fantasies with each other and try to make one a reality. You might be surprised to hear what your partner is into!

What you’ll need:
– Whatever the fantasy requires, possibly costumes and sex toys

#27 Plain Old Blindfold

Sex is exciting because it activates all of our senses. And by playing this game, you’ll get to focus on everything besides sight. Blindfold one (or both of you) and simply get down to business. Your other senses will be heightened, and you can let your imagination run wild.

What you’ll need:
– A blindfold

#28 Prisoner

There’s something sexy about the prisoner-guard scenario. The dom-sub relationship in this game is bound to turn you both on.

Handcuff your partner (or have them handcuff you) to a bedpost naked and make your way with their body. Whatever you want, you get. After all, they’re the prisoner.

What you’ll need:
– Handcuffs

#29 Watch Me

Most people don’t take the time to really appreciate their partners, which is unfortunate. I recommend you try this game. It’s more exciting than you’d think. Each of you sits on one end of the room and pleasure yourselves, resisting the urge to touch each other.

What you’ll need:
– Sex toys

#30 Public Parking Lot

Have you ever wanted to fool around outside? The feeling if possibly getting caught turns most people on. If you’re feeling dangerous, drive to a public parking lot (not too public!) and fool around. You don’t have to have penetrative sex. Simply touch each other and have oral sex. Whatever you’re comfortable with!

What you’ll need:
– A car

#31 Picnic

This requires a bit more set-up but has the potential to be really sexy. Go on a picnic at a semi-private park, eat some great food and enjoy some wine, and fool around a little bit. Touching each other outside will get you riled up, and when you get home, you won’t be able to resist ripping each other’s clothes off.

What you’ll need:
– A picnic basket
– Some delicious food (bonus points if you pack aphrodisiacs)

#32 Open Your Mouth Close Your Eyes

Want to enjoy a snack and your partner’s body at the same time? Blindfold your partner and start putting things in his mouth. Start with food and move into body parts. Fruits are the best option, as they aren’t too messy and you get to lick the juices off of each other! Whenever they guess right, you have to switch roles.

What you’ll need:
– A blindfold
– Delicious food

#33 Strip Pong

Getting competitive with your partner is one way to build tension, and when you pair that with alcohol, great sex is inevitable. Take a wild trip back to your college days and play beer pong, but with a twist. Instead of (or alongside!) drinking beer, the loser has to remove a piece of clothing.

What you’ll need:
– Red solo cups
– Beer
– A pong ball

#34 7 Minutes in Heaven

Regain that feeling you felt when you were young and made out with someone for the first time. This is a twist on the game you know you played when you were younger, but more R-rated. You have 7 minutes to get in and get out of the closet. The pressure could result in a really sexy, sweaty experience.

What you’ll need:
– A closet

#35 Commercial Break

Want to build sexual tension while enjoying a movie? When you and your boo are watching TV, use the commercial breaks to fondle each other. After your show is over, you’ll both be so turned on that you’ll have to have sex right away.

What you’ll need:
– Netflix!

#36 Naughty Girl

If you enjoy being submissive in bed, this game is for you. Make a list of all the things you did wrong during the day and give it to your man. Have you spank you with his hand or even a paddle, punishing you for being naughty. Create a safe word just in case!

What you’ll need:
– A piece of paper
– A pen

#37 Into the Woods

Another one for the exhibitionists out there! Take a hike through the forest, and halfway, stop and fool around. There’s something about having sex outside that gets the blood pumping. I don’t know about you, but I love giving a blowjob in the forest!

What you’ll need:
– A forest

#38 Sex Charades

Turn your boo on with your sexy acting skills! This is like regular charades, but instead of acting out innocent things, you’re acting out sex acts. Get creative and use different props. Just watching each other is enough to really turn you on. And if your partner guesses what you’re doing, they get to make it a reality!

What you’ll need:
– Costumes and props

Did Any of These Games Excite You?

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Sex is an important part of every relationship and nobody enjoys a dry spell. That’s why I wanted to share these games with you. It’s often as easy as playing a simple game to get you and your partner ready to go.

There’s a game on this list for every type of person. I promise you that once you get over that first bit of embarrassment, you’ll start to enjoy yourself and your sex life will flourish.

Whether you love your sex life the way it is, you’ve been a little bored for a while or you’ve recently come to realize that your sex life isn’t as wild as you once thought — thank you, Internet! — you might want to try out one or more couples sex games. From role playing (more here) to actual board games that you can play with your man, and sometimes your friends, we’ve got the lowdown on the best sex games for couples!

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The Most Popular Sex Games for Couples

1. Sex Dice

Sex dice are an age-old game you’ve probably heard of. One die typically lists body parts such as the neck, breasts or genitals while the other lists actions such as kissing, blowing or sucking. Many sex dice have six sides like traditional dice, but some have a different number of sides. You have to obey the dice or pay a penalty. You can up the ante by having to strip or take a drink if there’s something you’re not willing to do such as sucking on his toes.

In a pinch, you can adapt a regular pair of dice. Each number would stand for another body part or action. Check out our guide to foreplay for more ideas. Bonus points if you’re nerdy and use specialty dice with 10 or more sides! This will add a lot of variety to your sex dice game.

2. Strip Pong

Beer pong is a popular drinking game, and you may have some great memories — or not remember at all! — the times you played it with school friends. Set up your plastic cups filled with water on either end of a long table. Each team or player takes turns trying to toss a ping pong ball into the cups across the table. Whenever you make a shot, your partner has to strip, but you’ll lose clothes if he’s a better player than you!

3. Bases Loaded

Give a whole new meaning to the bases system — don’t know about it? check out this post! — by performing sexual favors for your partner whenever your team does well. If you love baseball, assign treats to first, second and third base. Of course, home run means you’ll go all the way, too. Even if you don’t love the game, you’ll enjoy it in a new way with your partner! The two of you may not even know who wins the actual game as you’re playing your own.

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You can adjust this game for other sports that you happen to enjoy watching with your lover. Simply pick activities to coincide with different goals of the players on your screen!

4. Hide and Seek with Sex Toys

This classic children’s game has never been so sultry! Instead of taking turns finding your partner, hide sex toys, lingerie and other accessories around the house. As you partner finds them, he has to use the item on you or the both of you before moving on to the next item. If the item is lingerie, he can dress you up in the sexy piece, too! This is a great couples sex game if you’ve recently invested in a new vibrator or dildo, and it’s a good way to try out toys if you’ve never used them before. We’ve got great tips for using them in this post, too!

5. Mystery Item

Truss up your partner and toss him a blindfold before he lies back and relaxes. Take turns running mystery items up and down each other’s bodies. Sex toys work well, and you can even try to get the other to guess which one is in your hand. However, you can switch it up by using silky fabrics or even implements from the kitchen. If you’ve got items that are hot or cold, add them to the mix. Plus, using your tongue or dragging your breasts across your man’s body will be a sexy treat he won’t see coming.

6. Strip Twister

Combine a regular game with undressing, and you’ve got one of the best-known sex games around! Twister is all about keeping your balance while stretching your body across the vinyl board to reach a spot of the right color. Normally, you’d be out once you lose your balance, but switch it up by losing a piece of clothing. Eventually, you and your partner will be somewhat or entirely undressed as your bodies contort and press against each other. There’s no way to lose, and you’ll probably get a lot of laughs!

7. Not Yet

If you need to break out of the quickie rut, try this game. Set an alarm on your phone, timer or even microwave for at least 10 minutes , if not more. Start with foreplay, but penetration absolutely can’t happen until that timer goes off! This gives you plenty of time for making out or dry humping. Check out this post if you want to know how longer foreplay can help you have more intense, multiple orgasms!

8. Kidnapping

Now, this is one couples sex game that you need to be very careful about, but it can definitely be thrilling if you do it right. You should plan it out well ahead of time. Your partner should show up at home or work during a time when no one is likely to see you, and he can whisk you away in the trunk or, more safely, the backseat of the car. You don’t need nosy neighbors calling the cops. No one wants to have to explain that, so plan it out well.

Like any BDSM game, it’s important for you to have a safe word (more on that here), and you’ll want to be very careful that no one is hurt. You can continue the role play by being taken to a hotel for some hot sexy action outside the bedroom. Again, not getting caught is of utmost importance.

Sex Board Games

If you’re willing to shell out a few dollars, you can purchase any number of sexy games to play with your partner and possibly willing friends. You could get into group sex or swinging — more on that here — or you can just learn more about your partner through these board games, which encourage you to be thoughtful about your sex life.

1. Loaded Questions Adult Version

The Loaded Question games, which you can find at a number of big box retailers as well as on Amazon, force you to guess which of your friends are putting which answer. The adult versions asks spicy questions about celebrities they’d like to sleep with, other players they find attractive and sex acts they’ve done.

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2. I Dare You

Popular sex educator and erotica writer Susie Bright has dabbled in game making with this game, which consists of 30 dare cards wrapped in individual envelopes. Open the card and read it aloud. Each card prompts you to reveal a fantasy and get to know your lover better. According to the product description, “No two lovers will play the cards the same way twice!”

You can buy the beautifully-wrapped physical cards or download the Kindle version on the cheap to see if you enjoy game without having to go through all the effort of opening envelopes.

3. XXXopoly

Pervy minds might have wondered how Monopoly could become a sexy game for couples, and XXXopoly is it. It works similar to the board game you’ve probably played countless times, but you can opt to pay in sexual favors rather than actual money. This game is just for two people.

Of course, you don’t necessarily need to purchase XXXopoly to get the experience. As long as you have an actual Monopoly game — and who doesn’t? — you can adapt the rules so that multiple people can play the sexy game. Whenever someone land’s on another’s property, they have to perform an act. It can start out as mild as kissing for a single property, turn to groping when someone lands on a different property and increase in riskiness when people land on properties with houses and hotels.

Landing on Free Parking could require someone to flash or strip for the lucky player. To top it all off, any player who goes bankrupt will have to pay the ultimate price, which you can decide. Will it be full on sex? Oral or manual stimulation?

4. Love Is Art Kit

Okay, so this isn’t exactly a board game, but you definitely won’t get bored playing it. The Love is Art kit is a blank canvas, paint and everything you need to make a one-of-a-kind piece of art with your partner that you can hang on your wall! Essentially, you roll out a giant tarp to protect your floor and furnishings, put the canvas on top of it and cover your naked bodies in paint. As you roll and write on the canvas, you’ll be creating your own art and a way to remember the experience forever.

It’s fun to get covered in paint and just as sexy to see your partner streaked with paint too. Because the result is abstract, you can feel free to hang it on your wall and even your parents won’t know your sexy little secret. It’s no wonder this has quickly become one of the most popular sex games for couples!

Sex games can help to spice things up in the bedroom, but they may not be for you. For instance, some couples find these games to be embarrassing or silly. If you’re not sure whether you’ll like a specific game or any sex games for couples, you can check out local thrift shops to see if any games, such as Loaded Questions, are available for sale at a discounted price. However, you don’t need to spend a dime to spice things up in the bedroom, and we’ve got plenty of advice for you in that area!

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The truth about sex is that, while there are certainly those folks who have sex five times a week every day, most people in long-term relationships experience periods where they just don’t have sex all that often. Sex in marriage fluctuates. There is, however, one important point to note: While the quantity of sex might dip, the quality of sex should increase. Given this, what do you do if you find yourself in a sexless marriage or sexless relationship, one where months go by without any release? Sexless marriages are quite common are more often than not a sign of deeper relationship issues: lack of emotional intimacy, issues of resentment, falling into boredom. Whatever the issue, it can’t be ignored. So what do you do if you find yourself in a sexless marriage? We asked several sex therapists well-versed in helping couples work through issues of sexual dry spells, to walk us through how often folks fall into a sexless relationship or sexless marriage, and how to help get a relationship back on track.


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Break Down the Problem

“There are numerous causes for a sexless marriage to develop. Many times it doesn’t have anything to do with sex,” says Sarah E. Clark, a licensed therapist and relationship expert. “When couples start to drift apart, lose their connection, take each other for granted, or build up resentment toward each other, their sex life is drastically impacted. You can think of sex as the barometer of the relationship.” According to Clark, open communication is key to working your way out of a sexless situation. “To fix a sexless marriage you need to treat whatever the root cause is for that couple. If the reason they stopped having sex is strictly about them not enjoying sex with each other, then the fix is about breaking down what isn’t working in the bedroom and finding some new strategies that they will both enjoy.”

Figure Out the Real Issue

“The common stereotype of the husband who wants more sex and the wife who is holding out is approaching myth status,” says Michael Moore, a licensed professional counselor and relationship expert at Marriage Mojo. “More and more couples are describing the reverse. Research indicates that testosterone has been falling steadily in men for decades so that could at least partially explain this trend.” Whatever the issue, the first step in diagnosing and treating a sexless marriage is to explore the reason for the problem and how long it’s been going on. Without that knowledge, no solutions will present themselves.

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Talk About the Good Old Days

“There are so, so, so many things that have an impact on our level of desire, and it’s not always as easy to pinpoint as some may think,” says mental health counselor Erin C. Parisi. “Many relationships have people who do not have the same level of sexual desire.” Parisi recommends individuals ask themselves: what side of the spectrum do I fall on? It’s also a question, she says, you should eventually pose to your partner. Try talking about what sex was like before, when things changed and what was going on around that time. “Ask your partner if they’re happy with how things are. If they could change something, what would it be? Make time to connect with each other, have fun, bond, flirt, try new things, tease, compliment, and set new goals,” she says.

But Don’t Try to Relive the Glory Days

“When I start working with parents who find themselves in a sexless marriage, I don’t tell them to go off and “just do it.” The first step is to simply help them have a better conversation about sex. Sexual problems are so common among new parents, but discussing them in a loving, creative, and productive way is not,” explains Dana B. Myers, sex coach and author of The Mommy Mojo Makeover. “There is often an expectation that couples should just return to the same frequency and the quality of sex. But with kids in the picture, things truly have changed. But things can get better once again, and with open communication, a sex life after kids can become even more expansive and pleasurable than it was pre-kids.” According to Myers, people waste too much time talking about how little sex they’re having. She suggests getting proactive. Get to talking. If that’s too much of a challenge, think about seeking some professional help.


Avoid Acting Passive-Aggressively

“I work with sexless marriages all the time,” says Elisabeth Mandel Goldberg, a licensed marriage and family therapist. “My assumption — unless fully convinced otherwise — is that one of them has had an affair, or still is.” According to Goldberg, bedroom death is usually a good indicator that someone will be stepping outside of the marriage sometime soon. “Sexless marriage is one opportunity away from infidelity. That’s how serious it is. Couples must practice talking openly about their needs so they don’t act out passive-aggressively and cause a ton of damage to many people.”

Nurture the Emotional Connection

“A first step would be working through any areas of resentment in the relationship and fostering emotional closeness through increased time together, intimate conversation, and affection,” says Dr. Wyatt Fisher, a licensed psychologist and marriage counselor. Fisher says feeling relaxed during sexual encounters is key to sexual responsiveness. Anxiety, he explains, tends to kill the mood. From there, he suggests setting up a sex schedule to help get things back on track. “Most couples have a discrepancy in sex drives, which can often lead to a lack of regular sex. Creating a ‘sex schedule’ of one to three times per week can be a perfect solution.”


Stop Comparing It to the Movies

“People often compare their sex lives to what they see on TV, movies, porn, or to what their friends claim to have,” says Eliza Boquin, a relationship and sexuality expert. “Way too often, people are misled into believing that everyone except them is having great sex.” If you are worried about the state of your sex life, Boquin suggests entertaining some open and honest conversation. “If you’re unable to communicate about sensitive topics like sex then it’s time to learn some new communication skills. Avoiding a topic because it’s uncomfortable is the best way to feed the problem.”

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How to fix a sexless relationship

This is a good point. Sometimes, if you spend time together outside your usual environment, you see each other in a different light. It’s also important to ask them what they’re looking for. What could you be doing that you’re not doing? Not just sex, although that’s a huge part. Maybe you’ve held back for fear of rejection, but even being rebuffed can spark a discussion about what the pair of you need.

Sometimes the fear that these discussions will lead to the relationship ending can stop us having them, but we should try to put our own happiness above practicalities or being frightened of a different future.

You need to change things up

If you’re not one of those lovey-dovey couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, the jump from humdrum day-to-day to unbridled sexual desire can seem jarring. The answer? Find other ways to get physically intimate that aren’t just a quick, methodical bang you can slot in before your standard eight hours a night on a Wednesday.

“Being physically intimate in other ways is just as important as sex; many people agree that kissing and cuddling is just as enjoyable as sex,” says Beresford. “So, if sex with your partner is causing an issue, find another way to be physically intimate – give them a kiss when you walk in the front door or hold their hand when you go for a walk. Don’t underestimate the importance of human touch.”

This doesn’t mean you have to start eating the face off each other in the supermarket, by the way – seriously, guys, I’m trying to buy some avocado over here – but introducing a general intimacy, being more tactile and affectionate in daily life can help.

You shouldn’t be afraid to stick at it

However you choose to tackle the issue, it won’t change overnight, so if you think the relationship is worth saving, be patient and kind to yourselves. Don’t get too disheartened; a change in behaviour or openness is bound to feel strange at first and it will take a while before you get into a rhythm. Just make sure any problems from the bedroom don’t spill over into other areas of your relationship – stay focused on what you want out of this.

Martin and his wife are trying out new ways of being together and giving it another year to see how they get on. “We’re realistic, but hopeful. Things are much better already. Talking was the main thing. And we do that loads.”

If your sex lives stay mismatched, a third party can help you see more clearly what’s going wrong – don’t be afraid to get professional help. If it doesn’t work out and you feel it’s right to walk away, there’s no shame in that either. A happy ending isn’t necessarily a fairy-tale one.

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Even happily married guys wonder what sorts of itches they’d be scratching if they were to ditch their partner. Their “newly single” fantasy might include long, naked weekends with a Hooters waitress, but the reality is not nearly as provocative.

As a divorced man, you are 39 percent more likely to commit suicide. Even if you don’t kill yourself, you will die younger. And forget chasing tail; your mobility also suffers from singlehood.

Oh, and yes, divorce crushes your finances: A study of divorced baby boomers found that a split slashed their wealth to less than a quarter of what they would’ve had if they’d never wed at all.

So we’ve collected 25 tips that can protect you from the sickly, cash-poor, single life. Save your marriage before it’s too late!

(To see how much work your relationship really needs, check out How Strong Is Your Marriage?)

1. Assume the Best Explanation for What She Did, Not the Worst

Think of an annoying thing she does that you regularly misinterpret. Psychologists call this a “maladaptive attribution.” Then stop it. You can improve your marriage simply by thinking about it differently; choose the kindest possible interpretation for her actions instead of the ugliest.

2. Take the Zero-Negativity Challenge

How many days this month can you go without doing or saying a single negative, hurtful thing to your partner? Give it a try, suggest Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., who’ve written 10 books on relationships.

You can strike sarcasm off the list too. In the words of Terry Real, the author of The New Rules of Marriage: “Sarcasm eats intimacy.” Your words matter. Measure them.

3. A Foot Massage Works Wonders; A Head Massage Works Miracles

Related: How to Pleasure a Woman—the complete guide to becoming a master lover!

4. Don’t Make a Complaint. Make a Request Instead (Politely!)

5. Write Her a Letter—On Paper

A University of Denver study of soldiers found that exchanging letters with their wives had a more positive and long-lasting effect than texting did.

6. Watch This Sex Video

“Makeup sex” doesn’t solve a fight, and latent anger can be a lust killer. Sit down together and watch family therapist Michele Weiner-Davis’s TEDx talk “The Sex-Starved Marriage” on YouTube.

Even if you’re not exactly starving, this video can help stoke hunger now and forever.

7. Don’t Try to Fix Her Problems—Just Listen to Them

“Men are conditioned to solve problems and to protect the women they love,” says couples therapist Shiri Cohen, Ph.D., an instructor at Harvard Medical School.

“This can backfire when all she really wants is to be heard,” she says. “The next time your mate needs to vent or complain, just give her your open ears.”

If you think you do have a good solution, wait and bring it up later during a separate conversation.

8. Sweat with Her, Then Hop in the Shower Together Later. It’s Healthy!

For 20 years, Thomas Bradbury, Ph.D., and Benjamin Karney, Ph.D., of UCLA’s Marriage Lab, followed more than 1,000 couples to evaluate the different ways partners support each other in their efforts to make important changes in their lives. Bradbury says he was amazed that the most common topic—coming up in about seven out of 10 couples—was that they wanted to change to a healthier lifestyle.

Their book, Love Me Slender, shows couples how to work together to maintain healthy weights. A new large-scale British study seconds that: “Men and women are more likely to make a positive health behavior change if their partner does too,” the authors note. Get started today with the 21-Day MetaShred, an at-home program to strip away fat and reveals rock-hard muscle.

9. Look Past Her Flaws (Don’t Try to Eliminate Them)

“Look above the things you find annoying or unpleasant,” says Douglas LaBier, Ph.D., a psychologist based in D.C. “Respond to the best qualities in her—which will always make her best side stronger.”

10. Tell the Kids to Shut Up While You Two “Connect”

“A measly 15 minutes,” says William Doherty, Ph.D., a professor of family social science at the University of Minnesota. These kinds of “connection rituals” hotwire your whole life together. So do it.

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11. As Go Mom and Dad, So Go Their Kids. The Sooner the Little Monsters Understand That They’re Part Of Your Life, not Vice Versa, the Better.

12. Always Look for Ways to Turn “Me” Into “We”

Listen up as Monmouth University psychologist Gary Lewandowski Jr., Ph.D., sets you (and her) straight with this not-so-obvious fact: “Research shows that people who see themselves as overlapping with their partner have better relationships.

You begin to lose track of where one partner begins and the other ends.” Coach was right: It’s all about the team.

Related: 4 Incredibly Easy Ways to Be an Awesome Husband.

13. Respond to Good News and Bad

Your wife gets cool new responsibilities at work. How do you respond? Passively (“That’s nice. What’s for dinner?”), destructively (“Less time for me, right?”) or—jackpot!—actively and constructively (“Wow, let’s party!”)?

According to UC Santa Barbara psychologist Shelly Gable, Ph.D., positive responses reassure your wife that you’ll also support her when the news is bad.

14. Go Out to the Movies. Then Talk Afterward

Ronald Rogge, Ph.D., a professor at the University of Rochester, followed 174 committed couples for three years. Some of the couples received traditional marriage counseling, others received no special attention, and still others were instructed to watch relationship-focused movies each week and talk afterward.

Watching flicks and getting counseling both cut the breakup rate by half.

15. Come Together Only Happens on Abbey Road. Relax. Take Turns

Related: 16 Tricks for Hotter Monogamy.

16. Autonomy in a Relationship Is Good

Neither of you should feel that you’re being guilted or coerced into choices about the way you live. Researchers at the University of Houston found that couples who feel self-determined instead of trapped are less defensive and more understanding during fights.

17. Expand Your Mate’s Idea of You Two . . .

In Aruba. Or Zion National Park. Or Quebec City. Travel is a mate redefiner, which may be why you enjoy exuberant sex in exotic places.

18. Keep Your Voice Down When You Fight. It Might Shock Both of You Into Being More Reasonable.

Related: 4 Easy Steps to Resolve Any Fight.

19. Banish Boring, Part 1: Do Something Batshit as a Couple

Jet skiing? Hang gliding? Psychologist Arthur Aron, Ph.D., and his colleagues at Stony Brook University and UC Berkeley have found that couples who engage in a novel activity together report much more marital satisfaction than couples who have merely “pleasant” date nights (that is, the same old routine).

Okay, it doesn’t have to be skydiving, says Aron; “it can be an art class.” The point: Bust your rut.

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20. Banish Boring, Part 2: Do Batshit Things with Another Couple

If you go on a double date and do something new that creates closeness among the four of you, says Aron, you’ve just quadrupled the excitement level in the room. That thrill is associated with your partner.

“And that initial sense of exhilaration that comes from falling in love is reinvigorated,” he says. Aron’s theory: You’re happiest when your mate expands your sense of who you are. So perhaps some time travel is in order.

Remember when you two were young and the possibilities seemed limitless? Reengage with friends from that time, preferably ones who’ve been sweating together (see #8). Then push new boundaries as a group.

21. Ask: How Much Do I Hate My Wife?

Be brutally honest. Oh, you love her? Next question: Why am I so mean to her sometimes? David Schnarch, Ph.D., coined the term “normal marital sadism” to describe the many ways we annoy our spouses on purpose.

Stop the purposeful hurts, says Schnarch, and she’ll “like you, want to have sex with you, and wish you well.” Leave the snark and sadism behind, and you’re onto something like the title of Schnarch’s landmark book: Passionate Marriage.

Related: The Unbelievably Easy Way to Make Her 14 Percent Hornier.

22. Buy a Lamp Together (It’s Worth It)

Beloved, jointly acquired items are called “couple markers.” They’re a barometer of your bond. They help replace “yours” and “mine” with “ours.”

23. Your Sacrifices Are Your Gift, Not Her Debt

It’s called having a “communal relationship” with your wife. In such a marriage, sacrifices (yours and hers) are the gifts that keep on giving. Do something nice. Don’t keep score. Both of you benefit.

24. You Know Her—Push the Buttons That Please Her

In her terrific little book Marriage Rules, Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., mentions urging a client to come up with three things to do that he knew his wife would appreciate. You can do the same. Get started, smart guy.

25. Practical Stuff Can Wait. Attend to Her Now.

Don’t let the urgent (Bills! The office! The lawn! The Cubs!) get in the way of the important (steps 1 through 24 above). Remember: Your financial, emotional, and physical health depends on a close collaboration with your wife. Make it a priority, or else. Now, care to revise your to-do list?

10 Best Adult Party Games That’ll Make Any Game Night

Swirling wine around in a glass and talking about the stock market is fun and all, but when I find myself in the midst of a stuffy get-together, I can’t help but wish that someone had brought along one of the best adult party games. Since there are hundreds of options on the market right now, there really isn’t any excuse to party without one — but some games are definitely better than others, so it pays to do your research.

If you, like me, prefer a more lively hang out, these hilarious adult party games can get things rolling. You’ll want to choose one that will subtly help people to loosen up, talk to each other, laugh with each other, and break down the barriers that make them feel awkward. If you ever find yourself hosting get-togethers of any sort, these are the best grownup game night picks to have on hand for all those reasons.

They’re also guaranteed to make you the MVP of someone else’s party when you bring them along, because who doesn’t appreciate a little ice-breaking? For hours of laughter, bonding, and fun, here’s a list of some of the best adult party games, both appropriate and inappropriate (but, let’s be real, mostly inappropriate).

1. Smart Ass

Is Trivia Night at your local bar the highlight of your week? Bring the fun home with Smart Ass, a game for all those Hermione Grangers out there who think fast on their feet and are quick with an answer. Each who, what, or where question features ten clues that the card reader says aloud – until Miss Smartypants over there shouts out the answer the second she knows it. Sort of like Jeopardy without the manners, this game will have everyone racing to answer the question first, and hey, it’s basically educational, so play as often as you like.

A Game For People Who Like Trivia

“My family loves trivia games — really any type of competition — and this game is one of the funnest we have ever played,” says one reviewer who loves it because it’s fast-paced, easy to follow, and can be played with individuals or teams.

2. That’s What She Said

According to reviewers, That’s What She Said is a fresher, dare they say “better” version of Cards Against Humanity. It’s also a great choice for parties with larger groups, because it’s fast-paced, designed for four or more, can be adjusted to suit your time-frame, and even has expansions to keep things fresh and increase the number of players.

A “Better Version” Of Cards Against Humanity

Essentially, this game has 400 phrase cards and 58 setup cards. The judge throws down a set-up, and everyone plays their best phrase. The winner is entirely dependent on the judge’s sense of humor — but since the judge changes every round, it pays to know who’s got the dirtiest mind. Every single card has a hilarious, mostly-sexual theme, and reviewers call it an “absolute must-have” for inappropriate friend groups.

3. Nasty Things

This one’s a little like Scattergories, except the themes aren’t so PG-rated. Nasty Things comes with 250 hilariously-inappropriate prompts, like “things a proctologist names his finger,” and, “things zombies do when they’re not eating people.” Then everyone takes turns writing down their responses, and points are doled out when someone can correctly guess who wrote what.

The Adult Version Of Scattergories

Some reviewers prefer it to other card games, as it requires quick-thinking and wit, and it can be toned down or up based on who’s sitting around the table. It comes with cards, a notepad, and pencils, and because this game has a great sense of flow and simple-to-understand instructions, it’s an awesome jump-right-in game for just about any type of party.

4. Draw What?!

If you’re a fan of R-rated games, and have the general mentality of “the cruder, the better,” this one’s for you. One player describes Draw What?! as, “If Pictionary and Cards Against Humanity had an orgy with Charades and Candy Land,” and with that ridiculous mash-up, there’s really no way to go wrong.

A NSFW Drawing Game For Adults

The board game features 375 twisted words and phrases, which you then have to draw on the white board. If your teammates can guess what you’re drawing, you can all move ahead along the colored squares — but be sure not to land on the wrong space! If you’ve got a group of friends that’s perfectly okay with swearing and raunchy drawings (a bachelorette party, perhaps?) this game will definitely go over well.

5. Speak Out

This is basically like Win, Lose, or Draw, but with your mouth. Hear me out: Grab a group of friends, pop in a mouthpiece, and try to say silly phrases to your teammates (e.g., “slow down, you careless clown!”). If they can understand you – through both the mouthpiece and your incessant laughter – your team earns a point. This is good, goofy fun you can have with everyone, from your friends for a wine-fueled game night or with your family (yes, even Grandma). Yes, you’ll look ridiculous, but that’s the point!

The Mouthpiece Game For Any Age

One Amazon reviewer raves, “Love this game…. Used it on game night New Years Eve & we had a blast:) We couldn’t stop laughing!! If you leave the mouth piece in too long it does start to hurt your lips & while your talking a lot of drool leaks out so make sure you have a wash cloth or small towel in your hand!!!”

6. Drunk Stoned Or Stupid

“There are no winners in this game…only losers,” says the Drunk Stoned or Stupid product description. In each round, one player will act as the judge, and the others will start by drawing a card. Your job is to decide which player is most likely to do the action on the card — things like “Never make it past pregame” or “Watch ‘Planet Earth’ for five hours” are all game. Argue your point to the judge using the accused’s past, stories, or their personality against them. Whoever gets seven cards first loses. This is one you’ll be playing into the wee hours of morning with your closest pals time and time again.

This One That’s Like Offensive Superlatives

I think one Amazon reviewer sums it up well, “Drunk, Stoned, or Stupid is not just a game to bring to a party. It is the life of the party! Each card is perfect for someone in the group, and you get to hear your friends tell hilarious stories as they battle to be the one not to keep the card. But the best part about playing this game is the personal element that it adds to game night, which is unlike any other game I have played. Everyone is engaged as they think about the different people sitting around them and, better yet, creatively defend themselves from racking up too many cards that might strike a little too close to home.”

7. What Do You Meme?

If memes crack you up online, you’ll seriously love this game. It comes with Photo Cards from popular memes as well as Caption Cards. Each player gets seven Caption Cards and everyone competes to make the funniest combination. Players take turns being the judge, and the person who creates the highest number of winning combinations wins the game. While this game is loads of fun, it isn’t recommended to play around children.

A Meme Game From The Folks At F*ckJerry

“We literally couldn’t stop playing and didn’t end up quitting until we had exhausted every single meme in the stack, 2.5 hours later,” says one reviewer. “There were many times the judge couldn’t finish reading a card because we couldn’t breathe from laughing so hard! Definitely recommend.”

8. Exploding Kittens

Like the box says, the NSFW-edition of Exploding Kittens is a game for “people who are into kittens and explosions and sometimes butts,” which might possibly describe a good percentage of people. Think of this as a fast-paced, kitten-fueled version of Russian Roulette: You take turns drawing cards with the hopes of avoiding the Exploding Kitten cards. When someone invariably draws one, they’re dead – exploding kittens are dangerous, after all – unless they have a Defuse card to distract the kitty from blowing up (think: laser pointers, catnip, and belly rubs). Looking for something a little less risqué? Check out the suitable-for-work version, which is one of the most backed Kickstarter projects of all time. Impressive, right?

The Oatmeal’s Survival Card Game

Almost 5,000 Amazon reviewers rave about how fun this adult party game is. One reviewer says, “Exploding Kittens NSFW version is really fun to have in your game arsenal. It doesn’t take long to learn and its quite enjoyable. My and my friend play this at least once a week when we get together for game night. I like the graphics that are on the cards.”

9. Joking Hazard

The only true hazard you’re going to run up against with this game is how long you’ll want to keep playing it. In Joking Hazard, you compete along with the rest of your party to finish truly awful comics and see who can one-up the other.

Each box comes with 360 cards. It’s similar to Apples to Apples and Cards Against Humanity, except you’re building out a story instead of a phrase. Unlike other card games, the rules for this are pretty flexible, and for a reason. With this game, you have total creative control with how the story progresses. Since each comic is designed to work as a small story, you’re really able to control the flow of the game as you go.

Arrange Your Own Comics With Cyanide & Happiness

“The cards are so well written and balanced, that nearly any combination results in beyond colorfully off beat hilarity,” wrote one reviewer. Another raved, “A game night headliner … I picked this up because I followed the comic and the animated internet cartoon for years now. I don’t think I had laughed as hard during a board game before.”

10. Unstable Unicorns Card Game

One of the most-backed Kickstarter projects of all time, Unstable Unicorns is a fun card game that’ll pit you against your friends. How it works: Up to eight people play specific cards with the goal of getting seven unicorns in their stable (the area in front of you). Each player will also have a few cards they can use to hinder their competition, cards like a magic cards to enhance your own chances of winning, and upgrade and downgrade cards to increase your defenses against your friends, or halt their progress.

A Popular Card Game That’ll Pit You Against Your Friends

Nearly 1,500 Amazon reviewers rave that this game is an all-around good time. One raves, “Such a fun game. Definitely a favorite for game night with friends… especially if you have friends who just play to destroy other player’s stable. I recommend this game to everyone who wants hours of fun and laughter.”

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44 Sexy Games For Couples To Try Out

We all know how bad it can be for your relationships if things get stale or boring. You start getting nitpicky with each other and resentment can even stir.

But knowing some sexy games for couples can help you two keep the spark alive even when you feel it fizzling out.

As important as maintaining the emotional part of your relationship is, you still have to make time to get frisky and have fun.

However, the struggles of day-to-day life can get in the way and if you’re not sure what to do to enjoy each other’s company, you both might end up scrolling on your phones instead.

That’s where we come in.

This is an extensive list of fun games for couples. Don’t forget to let loose and have fun with your partner. It’ll make your relationship a lot better if you do.

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Sex Games For Couples

If you’re looking to spice up your sex life, these games are perfect.

Blindfold Fun

All you need is blindfold and a libido that’s ready to go. Put a blindfold on either partner.

The one who can see gets to lead the other person anywhere in the home and do whatever they want to the other.

Naked Twister

The game is played just as it sounds.

You get a twister mat and spinner, take your clothes off, and play!

It can be tricky to spin while also playing, but you’ll just have one player allowed to remove their hand for a single spin.

Time Bomb

Set a timer for a certain amount of time. Usually, between 15 and 30 minutes is ideal.

Then you both are allowed to engage in foreplay only until it goes off. No penetration of any kind!

You can make it interesting by using lube, whipped cream, or even vibrators – only limit is your imagination!

Virgin Antics

If you’re into foreplay, this is for you. Hop in a car somewhere you won’t be interrupted.

Have one person pretend to be a virgin while the other gives instructions on what to do.

Go into detail about their hands, lips, and exactly what they should do.

Strip Poker

This is another pretty standard game you can easily play.

Get some cards, chips, and be prepared to strip. Whoever loses each round takes off an article of clothing.

Sex Suits

If you have a deck of cards and nothing to do with your mouth, this is the game to play with your significant other.

Hearts are kisses, diamonds are a massage, clubs are naughty stimulation by hands, and spades are oral.

Whichever number you draw equals the amount of seconds each act lasts.

Guess What

This game requires one of you to sit or kneel on the ground and keep your mouth open.

Then the other person places different body parts against your mouth and you have to guess what it is.

Role Playing

You know the deal with this. Dress up in something sexy and pretend to be someone else.

To kick this up a notch, start the sexcapades while you’re out at a bar, pretending not to know each other.

You know exactly how this game works.

The trick here is to ask and dare only sexual, naughty things.

Feather Light

This is a game for when you have the entire day to get freaky together.

Grab a feather or another very fragile, light material and have your partner attempt to make you come with just that object.

Grab Bag

Gather all of your favorite sex toys and throw them in a bag. Have your partner reach in and take one out.

That’s the sex toy you’ll be putting to work that evening!


This one is super fun if you want to switch things up a little bit. Assign each number on the dice a sex act. Roll it over and over again and perform those acts on each other.

To change it up a little bit more, assign the number three as a wild card and that person gets to choose the act and roll again!

Guess Where

This game is super fun because you get a lot of foreplay in a really interesting way.

Start by thinking of somewhere you’d like your significant other to kiss.

Keep it in your mind and then have him kiss you in different places until he finds the spot.

Switch roles and have some fun!

Mirror Mirror

Get naked and stand facing each other. One person starts and does something naughty to the other. Now you have to repeat exactly what they did.

This is a super fun way to get some foreplay in and see what your partner really wants from you.

Keep it Straight

This is about not cracking a smile.

Write down some really outlandish, funny, dirty phrases you think your partner will laugh really hard at hearing.

Sit in front of each other and have one person read off the phrases to the other.

Whoever smiles or laughs the most loses and has to do whatever their partner wants in bed.

Drinking Games For Couples

What’s better than getting drunk and having a great time together? Not much.

Here are a few games you can try together.

Never Have I Ever

This is a perfect game to get to know your man better. It’s simple.

You both take turns saying something you’ve never done.

If they have, they drink. If you’ve done something they haven’t, you drink.

Go Fish

You know this card game. If you want a really simple night in, play the game like normal but just take a drink of your beer or mixed drink every time your partner gets a pair.


Grab a couple cups and a coupe quarters.

All you have to do is bounce the quarter into your man’s cup and he’ll try to do the same to you.

If you make it, he drinks. If he makes it, you drink.


You can really use any word for this but apple seems interesting enough.

The idea of this is to be quick witted. You go back and forth between the two of you counting.

Each time you get to a multiple of 7, you say “apple” instead of the number.

If you forget, drink. If your man forgets, he drinks.


This game is not only super fun, but can make for a great drinking game.

Play it as your normally do but when you lay down “draw 2” or “draw 4” cards, your partner has to take that many drinks along with the cards, and vice versa.

Two Truths, One Lie

This is a super easy drinking game that can be played without alcohol.

But booze makes everything great, so we use it!

Give your partner two truths and one lie. If they guess the lie right, you drink. If they don’t, they drink.

Movie Mustache

Go get a fake mustache and pin it on your TV somewhere not in the corners.

Whenever the mustache lands on someone’s face like a real mustache, you both take a drink.

This is perfect for a movie night if you’re looking to get a little tipsy, too.


I’m sure you know how to play scrabble.

However, instead of playing normally, make it into a drinking game by spelling words that have to do with drinking.

If your partner spells “bar,” you take a shot. If you spell “beer,” they take a shot.

Truth or Dare Extreme

Turn up the heat with some drinking truth or dare.

Why is it extreme?

Because it’s DARE only! If you or your partner refuses to do a dare, you have to drink.

Drinking Roulette

This is a super fun game and you better be ready to have fun! All you need is three shot glasses and some water and vodka.

Fill up two glasses with water and one with vodka.

Have your man leave while you do this and when he returns, he gets to choose one.

He could get vodka or water! Have him do the same and get ready to get a few shots down.

Spin the Bottle

This is so much more than just the typical game.

Grab a bottle, some chocolate sauce, liquor in a shot glass, whip cream, and other fun toys. Put them in place of other people in the circle.

Spin the bottle and whichever it lands on you have to do something with it. If you land on your man, kiss him!

Strip Dice

Grab a dice and an alcoholic beverage. Even numbers mean you take a drink while odd numbers mean you have to remove a piece of clothing.

You’ll get drunk and naked together with this game!

Drinking Jenga

If you’re okay with writing on your Jenga game, this will work.

Write down different acts on each wooden piece like, “take a drink,” or “take a shot” or “take off your shirt.”

Build up the tower and whichever piece of wood you pull out, you have to do whatever it says.

Higher or Lower

Get a deck of cards and have one person be the dealer. They flip the card over and your job is to say whether the next card will be higher or lower.

If you get it wrong, you drink. If you get it right, they drink.

Battle Shots

If you’re into board games, this will be awesome. Spend some time drawing up a board like Battle Ships.

Take shot glasses and fill them up.

If your partner guesses where one is correctly, you take the shot.

Fun Games For Couples

Here are a few games that are just for fun. You can play them with anyone but it’s always a little better with your lover.

Would You Rather

If you don’t know this game, you must be living under a rock.

All you do is present two options to your significant other and ask which he’d rather do.

Make sure to make these gruesome and really difficult!

Childhood Board Games

Remember the games you used to love as a kid?

Buy them and have a game night.

It’ll help you get to know more about what your lover was like as a kid and you’ll have a great time reliving those memories together.

1,2,3 Go

For this game, you need to jot down a bunch of question you can answer about each other. Things like, “What’s your favorite band?”

You’ll both count up to three and then say your answer about a single person. So if it’s your turn, you’ll say your favorite band and your man will do the same – hoping he gets it right.

The one with the most right about their partner wins!

Cookie Baking

This works the best if you are both great bakers. It’s a super simple game and all you have to do is bake some cookies!

Decide whose is best in the end and devour them all!

High Stakes Poker

The stakes, in this case, are chores and household duties. Before one hand, pick a chore neither of you really wants to do and a duration for which the loser will take care of it.

It’s fun and you both get something out of it!

Question Games For Couples

If you want to learn more about your lover, these games will help you do just that.

Would You Rather – Sex Addition

You’ve already learned how to play this game but in order to make it a little more intimate, only ask questions about sex.

You’ll find out an awful lot about what your partner likes in bed with this game.

Childhood Mash-up

This game is pretty simple. All you really have to do is write down a number of questions related to your childhood with two possible answers.

One is the correct answer and the other is not.

Read the question like, “What was my favorite cereal as a child? Apple Jacks or Lucky Charms?” and have your partner answer. If they’re wrong, you win a point and vice versa.

Memory Challenge

With this game, you or your man could get in trouble. See how much each other remembers about the other.

Simply write down questions you think your significant other should know. Things like, “What was my nickname when I was little?” and then see if they can get it right.

Points are rewarded to whoever wins!

Truth or Truth

You know the truth or dare, right? Well, this game is similar, but just a little different.

Basically, you give your partner the option of answering two of your questions and they get to choose which.

If they refuse to answer both, you get a point. Whoever has the most points, wins!

Romantic Games For Couples

Let’s crank up the romance with some games to set the mood! No matter what, romance needs to be kept fresh in the relationship.

Guess Why I Care

I know you might think this sounds harsh but I promise it’s romantic and adorable.

You both write down two options for basic romance questions like, “Why did you fall in love with me?”

Then he reads off his two options and you guess which is the truth. This can help open your eyes to why he truly loves and cares about you.

Bedroom Rumble

You start by lying naked on the bed and your partner stands naked in the doorway.

Next, you ask him a series of questions about you like, “What’s my sexual fantasy?” or “What’s my favorite scent?”

For every question he gets right, he gets to take a step closer until he can finally have you.

What do You Want to Try?

This is a very kinky, fun game to play that can have a very romantic twist. You each write down a set of questions revolving around trying things.

For example, you could write down, “What do you want to try in bed?”

You ask the question and on the count of three, you both give your honest answer about what you want to try. If you say the same thing for one of the questions, you do it.

Tell Me You Love Me

If you want to know why your man loves you, this is a great game.

You start by sitting in front of each other and one person starts by telling the other statements about why they love the other.

You go back and forth, taking turns. Whoever smiles first, loses.

True or False

This is a really fun game that’ll help you see if you know your partner better than he knows you!

Write down facts about yourself on small pieces of paper. Half will be true and the other false. Create two columns for the true and false statements.

Trade stacks of your truths and falsehoods with your man. At the same time, start filing the facts in the “true” and “false” columns.

Whoever finishes first AND has the most correct wins!

Just remember…

Knowing how to play fun games together will help keep love at the forefront of your relationship.

Sometimes you have to get creative to keep that fire burning.

Luckily we’ve got you covered with the His Secret Obsession guide.

I’ll be honest with you: it’s the fastest and most fun way to make him yours forever.

Learn more about His Secret Obsession now!

Truth or Dare

Truth or Dare has been around for a long time. It’s quite possibly one of the most played games in the world. It’s easy, fun, and most of the time, embarrassing.

It’s a great way to get secrets out of your friends and family. You’ll definitely entertain your friends with this game and let them do crazy and silly things. It’s also the perfect game to play with your crush or loved one.

What do you need for Truth or Dare?

  • Players: Two or more (is also fun in large groups)
  • Setup time: You can play it immediately
  • Play time: Depends on how long you want to play it
  • Equipment: An empty bottle (optional)

For this simple party game, you only need a couple of other players. Alcohol could spice it up a notch, but it’s not essential tough.

If you want to play Truth or Dare online, here you get random truth questions and daring tasks:

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How to play Truth or Dare

Do you have secrets? Are there things that nobody knows about you (except perhaps your best friend)? Things that would even silence your friends for a minute – or make them laugh? Sure! No matter how well you know your friends, there are always things you don’t know yet. And even regret knowing afterwards.

And that’s what Truth or Dare is all about. The game is simple. All players stand or sit in a circle. Then place an empty bottle on a table or on the ground.

The youngest player begins by rotating the bottle. The bottleneck now points to a teammate and the starting player asks the question: Truth or Dare? The person in question must choose between these two.


The person who has rotated the bottle may ask the player any question. He or she should answer with the absolute truth. The fun of the game depends on this!


If the person is up for a challenge, then give him or her one! Take a look at our Truth or Dare app below for 800+ insane questions and challenges.

Play Truth or Dare online (Random Question Generator)

Check out our free iPhone and Android app with 800+ crazy questions and challenges. Or choose play our online browser version of Truth or Dare. Lots of fun guaranteed!

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Play the dirty version (18+)

The most interesting topics are clear to us: sex, embarrassing experiences, secrets and sins! The best questions and tasks in truth or dare are aimed at taboos and things that you have to overcome. Before starting a more intimate version you should determine how explicit and personal the questions and dares may be. So that everyone feels comfortable.

Dirty Truth or Dare Questions for Naughty Couples & Adults

Are you looking for dirty Truth or Dare questions for couples? Spice up your relationship with these dirty Truth or Dare questions for couples!

Truth or Dare Questions List 🔥

There are lots of ways to have fun with this classic game. And as long as you don’t take it too far, Truth or Dare can bring hours of entertainment to your next party.

Truth or Dare Questions: Truths (part 1)

  • What is the first thing you would do if you were to wake up as the opposite sex?
  • Have you ever let someone else get in trouble for something that you did?
  • What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?
  • What’s the most ridiculous reason that you have ever broken up with someone over?
  • What is the grossest habit that you have?
  • What do you think is your best feature? And what is the worst?
  • What’s the bravest thing you’ve ever done?
  • Who in the round would you like to enchant in a pig?
  • When was the last time you peed the bed?
  • What do you dream about sleeping most?
  • If you were going to make your money illegally, how would you make it?
  • What is something childish that you still do?
  • If you were blind, who in the round would be your guide dog?
  • What can impress you the most?
  • If you were allowed to use only 3 words for the rest of the evening from now on – which would it be?
  • If you were a dictator, which law would you legislate first?
  • If you had lived during the Nazi era, who would you have been?
  • What was the most embarrassing experience in your school time / study time / education / last year?
  • What was the biggest mistake of your life?
  • What would you never do – even if you know you only have 12 more hours to live?
  • What offense have you committed?
  • Tell me a secret from your childhood.
  • What’s your biggest (secret) vice?
  • What would you like to do with me … (or person xy), if you could then erase my (her, his …) memory?
  • What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done to anyone?
  • In whom have you had the biggest crush on who?
  • Have you ever been in love with one of those present?
  • If you were a vampire, who of us would you bite now?
  • What’s the worst thing you’ve ever experienced?
  • What was your worst basket?
  • Have you ever pooped your pants in public?
  • What is your darkest fantasy?
  • What’s the nicest thing you’ve ever experienced with another person?
  • What is the greatest turn-off for you?
  • What do you like most about your body and what’s the ugliest?
  • Who from our round would you like to see naked?
  • Who in the round could you fall in love with most?
  • Have you ever had an erotic dream in which someone from this round occurred?
  • If you would tattoo yourself in the genital area – what would be there?
  • What’s more important in a relationship – sex or love?
  • Do you think sex is cool, good, okay, sometimes nice – or is not it so important to you?
  • What makes you really good sex?
  • How many times a week / month do you have sex – and how often would you like to have sex?
  • How many different sex partners have you already slept with?
  • Which part of the body turns you on the most?
  • How, where and with whom did you have your first time?
  • How important is an extended foreplay for you?
  • What does a man / woman have to do to seduce you?
  • Have you ever had a threesome? And how did you like it?
  • Have you ever had sex with a good friend?
  • Did you ever have sex with one of this group – except your partner?

Next: Never Have I Ever Questions

Truth or Dare Questions: Dares (part 1)

  • Take your underwear off (in private) and wear it on your head for the remainder of the game.
  • Let the group choose a song and lip-sync to the song while putting on a show for all of the players.
  • Kiss a player of your choice.
  • Dress up as the opposite sex and allow a picture to be taken of you.
  • Let someone in the group give you a new hairstyle.
  • Let your eyes connect and recognize a fellow player by the smell.
  • Have your eyebrows plucked by another player.
  • Take off all the socks and stuff them in your pants / and / or your bra.
  • Open yourself up like an asshole and end up with a person of your choice.
  • Behave like a hooker or a hustler and try to get someone to buy you.
  • Make-up with food from the kitchen.
  • Feed a person of your choice with spray cream.
  • Convince someone to buy you as slaves – by offering him services that you have to comply with!
  • Leak an object of your choice.
  • Paint your dream girl / dream man as true to the original as possible.
  • Make me a (nasty / funny / romantic) declaration of love.
  • Make a person of your choice from the round a marriage proposal.
  • Exchange with xy the clothes (preferably a woman with a man and vice versa).
  • Woman: take off your bra and bring it to me.
  • Man: take off your boxer shorts and give them to me.
  • Whisper a person of your choice nasty things in your ear and try to do it.
  • Sell me your genitals like a product from the supermarket / electronics store / vegetable stall / dealership.
  • Put yourself on the lap of a person of your choice – or put her on your lap and play an orgasm.
  • Choose a teammate to give you a kiss.
  • Kisses a person of the same sex as well as you can.
  • Grab a person of your choice in his pants.
  • Strive for me as best you can.
  • Use your lips and teeth to open the pants of a fellow player of your choice.
  • Tell a nasty story and use as many dirty words as possible.
  • Demonstrate with a teammate your favorite exodus and comment on everything.
  • Introduce the perfect blowjob with a banana or garden cucumber.
  • Take one of your teammates as seductively and erotically as possible from the T-shirt and kiss him / her from the navel to the waistband.
  • Make an erotic photo of a teammate of your choice.
  • Try to seduce a person of your choice and go as far as you want …
  • Piss from the balcony.
  • Organize a striptease.
  • Give a teammate a kiss on the bare bottom.

Next: Would You Rather Questions

Truth or Dare Questions: Truths (part 2)

  • What happened on your most awkward date?
  • What’s the most embarrassing moment in sex you’ve ever had?
  • You are totally in love, but then he / she leaves. What would have to happen to make you run away screaming?
  • What do you look for in a woman first – breasts, ass or face?
  • What do you look for in a man first and what must he have so that you think: awwwww, cool!
  • Have you ever satisfied yourself at the thought of one of this round?
  • What is your favorite position during sex?
  • What is an absolute taboo during sex?
  • What’s the hottest thing you’ve ever done?
  • Have you ever had cybersex or phone sex – and with whom?
  • What’s your nastiest secret wish?
  • What’s better – shaved or unshaved?
  • Who in this round do you think you have the best sex?
  • Who would you give money to sleep with you?
  • What was your craziest sex experience?
  • Have you ever had dangerous sex – and how exactly was that?
  • Have you ever had sex with a stranger? e.g. from Tinder?
  • If you went on the line – what would be your specialty?
  • What do you most like to think about when you satisfy yourself?
  • Have you ever had sex with the same sex?
  • You had sex with me. What would you say to me afterwards?
  • What’s the best way to lay you flat?
  • With whom would you sleep in any case – whether you are married or in love with immortal?
  • With whom did you have the best sex of your life?
  • Have you ever paid for sex?
  • Who did you have your last hot dream about?
  • Have you ever been surprised during sex – and by whom?
  • What is your favourite position?
  • Where is your erogenous zone?
  • Do you moan at the climax?
  • Who would you like to have sex with?
  • When was the last time you had sex?
  • Where do you have intimate piercings?
  • How many men / women have you already kissed?
  • What was your worst basket?
  • Who did you have the hottest date with?
  • What position is your favorite?
  • When was your first time?
  • Are you still a virgin?
  • On the toilet: Folding or rolling the toilet paper?
  • Where do you shave everywhere?
  • Have you ever been intimate with 2 people at the same time?
  • Did you ever hear your sister / brother moan?
  • Have you ever been caught in masturbation?
  • In which places did you have sex?
  • Have you ever cheated on someone?

Next: This or That Questions

Truth or Dare Questions: Dares (part 2)

  • Give a kiss to your opponent to your right.
  • Take a banana or cucumber and simulate the perfect BlowJob.
  • Drink your next drink on Ex.
  • Bell in underwear clad at your neighbor and apologize for the noise.
  • Miss a fellow player with a hickey.
  • Conduct an erotic conversation with a fellow player of your choice.
  • Show the round your bare belly.
  • Hold hands with a person of your choice for 5 minutes.
  • Let yourself be styled by a teammate a hairstyle.
  • Massage the feet of a player of your choice.
  • Make a belly dance for 1 minute.
  • Make the person to your left a romantic marriage proposal.
  • Give a kiss on the cheeks of all women present.
  • Exchange the clothes with the other player directly opposite.
  • Give a teammate a 2 minute head massage.
  • Simulate a monkey for 1 round.
  • Whenever you are asked something, make a face first.
  • Just eat something without using your hands.
  • Play Gollum from Lord of the Rings for 1 round.
  • Feed any player with a snack.
  • Pose 1 minute like a bodybuilder.
  • Determine within 1 minute whose hair is the best.
  • Dance to the song, what is being played.
  • kiss on the cheek / mouth a different sexual person.
  • Show us your belly.
  • Hold hands for 5 minutes.
  • Swap the T-shirt with the person right / left of you.
  • lick the floor.
  • Feed the person on the right next to you with something tasty.
  • Drink a big glass of coke on Ex.
  • Make 5 push-ups.
  • Let yourself be styled by the teammate left a blatant hairstyle.
  • Tell the person how great he / she is.
  • Name one thing about you for which you have already received compliments.

Next: Best Party & Drinking Games

Truth or Dare Questions: Truths (part 3)

  • Which animal suits you best and why?
  • What was your worst date?
  • Who would you like to kiss now?
  • What is your secret, dark fantasy?
  • Would you rather tattoo your butt or pierce your tongue?
  • Are you always faithful?
  • Did you have a teenage crush?
  • In which person are you in love?
  • Which celebrity would you like to have a date with?
  • What waasa the most embarrassing moment in your life?
  • Which mouth do you like most from the group here?
  • Which player has the most beautiful hands?
  • Where was your first kiss?
  • Who in the round would you most like to kiss?
  • Who at the table is probably the most ticklish?
  • What was the biggest mistake of your life?
  • Did something embarrassing happen to you on a date?
  • Have you ever had any contact with drugs?
  • Which person would you like to kiss now?
  • When was the last time you had a hang over?
  • Have you ever cheated on a school exam?
  • Have you ever stolen anything in the past?
  • Do you snore at night?
  • Which is your favorite song?
  • With which player would you swap for 1 week and why?
  • You move to a lonely island, who from the round do you take with you?
  • What are you most afraid of?
  • Where do you shave everywhere?
  • Do you have a nickname?
  • Are you looking into the toilet bowl before you wash?
  • Who gave you the worst heartache?
  • How many times have you kissed?
  • What’s the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
  • How many types / girls have you already kissed?
  • Who are you in love with?
  • Which star do you like hot?
  • Would you start something with XY (insert name)?
  • Have you ever stolen something?

Next: Most Likey To Questions

Truth or Dare Questions: Dares (part 3)

  • Call a friend and say you’re pregnant.
  • Describe your worst current teacher.
  • Eat something and pretend it’s the tastiest thing you’ve ever eaten.
  • Make the funniest grimace you can think of.
  • Make fart sounds.
  • Find out whose hair smell best.
  • Kiss the other gender person who comes first to your right.
  • Show your arm muscles.
  • Throw the person a seductive look to the left of you.
  • Give the person who sits 2 places to the right a kiss on the cheek.
  • Behave like a chicken for two minutes.
  • Follow a teacher of your choice.
  • The player to the right of you may mix a brew of all kinds of ingredients and you have to drink it.
  • Take off your shirt. Women too the bra.
  • Do it to your partner with his / her hand.
  • Lick the nipples of your partner.
  • Blindfold your partner and spoil him.
  • Stripe for your partner. If you’re already naked, get dressed again and then strip.
  • The player to the right of you opens all buttons and zippers.
  • Take off your top – women also take the bra.
  • Spit on your nipples and massage them with it.
  • Imitate an exhibitionist.
  • Spend the next round of play naked.
  • Drink your next drink on Ex.
  • Play an orgasm.
  • Do a striptease.

Next: Play Spin the Bottle online

Truth or Dare Questions: Truths (part 4)

  • Which famous person would you like to spend your night with?
  • Where would you like to beam now?
  • You have to marry a star, who?
  • How / where / with whom was your first kiss?
  • Are you still a virgin?
  • Do you shave? If yes, where?
  • What hairstyle do you have in the genital area?
  • Are you curious to become intimate with a person of your own gender?
  • Do you love a long foreplay? If so, how should it look?
  • What do you think about when you satisfy yourself?
  • When was your first time?
  • Are you still a virgin?
  • Have you ever cheated on someone?
  • What was your worst basket?
  • Do you moan at orgasm?
  • Have you ever been caught in masturbation?
  • Did you ever stuff your bra?
  • When was the last time you had sex?
  • In which places have you already masturbated?
  • What do you think about when you satisfy yourself?
  • Do you have experience with pee?
  • Have you ever had sex outdoors?
  • What is your favourite position?
  • Have you always been faithful?
  • What pubic hairstyle do you have?
  • Have you ever been intimate with 2 people at the same time?
  • What is your secret, dark fantasy?
  • Would you let yourself be splashed by a man in the face?
  • Did you play doctor games when you were younger?
  • Have you already had homosexual experiences?
  • Have you ever had phone sex?
  • If you had to give up an erotic contact ad, what would it be?
  • Who do you find most beautiful in the round? Sort all people from cute to ugly.
  • Who in your class would you most likely kiss?
  • Who from this round would you NOT invite at the next party?
  • What was the last lie you told the person to your right?
  • What was your biggest wish that you never said?
  • What offense have you committed?
  • Are you peeing in the shower?
  • What childish behavior do you have today?
  • Where do you shave everywhere?
  • Have you ever cheated on someone?
  • What is your biggest fear that nobody knows about?
  • In whom have you ever been in love, of which nobody knows anything?
  • Have you ever stuffed your bra or panties?
  • Would you rather be ugly and popular or pretty and unpopular?
  • Which position do you like best?

Truth or Dare Questions: Dares (part 4)

  • Choose a teammate who has to grab your pants.
  • Take a banana or cucumber and simulate the perfect BlowJob.
  • Give the player a kiss to you across the way.
  • Take off your clothes and explain the benefits of your genitals to other players.
  • Massage your own breast in an erotic way.
  • Tell a dirty story.
  • Call a stranger and offer phone sex.
  • Describe your genitalia as a product.
  • Pinkel from the balcony.
  • Spray cream on your chest and let it lick by a teammate
  • Send a selfie with a kiss to your ex.
  • Call Burger King and ask where the next McDonald’s is.
  • Let yourself be made up by the person on the right. He / she will be blindfolded!
  • Go to the fridge. Break open any remaining packages and leave them half eaten.
  • Put your arm in the toilet for ten seconds.
  • Paint a mono-brow and then post a selfie on Insta.
  • Call your mother and say you have a baby.
  • Touch the opposite person’s tongue with your tongue for ten seconds.
  • Write in the first WhatsApp group you find: “I’m tired of you!”
  • Explain in the Instagram story why all your followers annoy you.
  • Drink a shot of olive oil.
  • Have a dialogue with an item and pretend that you are arguing.
  • Surprise your opponent with a lap dance.
  • Give the person to your left a kiss on the butt.
  • Show the round your last WhatsApp chat.

👉 Play Truth or Dare online

Now you know how the game of Truth or Dare works. Grab your friends and have fun! You have the ultimate list of questions in your hand. You can play and enjoy this game at your next party, or play a quick game while you’re on the go or at the bar with a group of friends.

Just remember to always play the game safe. Don’t drink and drive!

4 Sexy Card Games To Play With A Partner

If your bedroom activities are getting a little ho hum, then a sex game might be the perfect prescription to creatively kickstart your love life. The most common erotic games are ones you may have already played as a curious teen in high school or college, like strip poker, strip beer pong, Never Have I Ever, Seven Minutes In Heaven, and Spin The Bottle. Granted, some of those are kinda better in groups, so whichever you decide to adapt for your pleasure depends on the style of copulation that gets you off.

Although its free (and easy) to update old school games and make them more X-rated, sometimes a little outside influence is required to help add a spark to your sexy times. That’s when a sexy card game comes in handy. The renewed popularity in card games like Apples To Apples and Cards Against Humanity has brought sex card games back into the fold, gifting us a host of new, explicit activities to keep you up past dawn. And unlike in years past, you don’t have to traipse down to your local adult store to peruse the naughty games in person, since you can now order a variety online.

Here are four sex games to try with a partner (or partners) if you’re in the mood for some toe-curling brain and body teasers.

1. Domin8 Quickie

Domin8 is like BDSM dominos, and includes 24 scenario cards and a multiplicity of ways to explore the erotic charge that only power play can bring.

2. Dare Duel

Consider Dare Duel to be the much more mature version of charades. Players will take turns drawing cards and picking words to create fun, sweet, or naughty “dares” to act out. Just remember to plan accordinly as one Amazon fan provided this tip: “Just plan on having a lot of props and toys handy if you want to play by the book.”

3. Truth Or Dare

Much like the traditional game of Truth or Dare, this version will inspire some interesting exploration between players, only with 50 prompts and dares included inside the tin, it’s much more intended for the bedroom than party. Prepare for things to get more sensual and much more carnal with each new round. “My husband & I found out a few new things about each other after 14 years together,” one Amazon reviewer writes. “Don’t play unless you expect a little adult fun after.”

4. Create Your Own Kinky Card Game With Regular Playing Cards

Kinky Cards is an umbrella name for a variety of games, but most people play by giving sexy values to a deck of cards (aces are oral; spades are ice cube foreplay; queens are p*ssy worship — you get the picture). One Reddit user actually created a really detailed version of the game, if you don’t feel like making you own. But for the extra adventurous, all you need is your imagination and someone to play with.

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3 Simple Sex Games To Spice Up Your Relationship

When I’m browsing sex toy shops, I always wonder about the sex games on the shelves. They look like fun, but I’m never sure if they’re worth the investment. Do you really need to roll dice to try new moves in bed, or can you just come up with the prompts yourself? Astroglide’s resident sexologist “Dr. Jess” O’Reilly tells Bustle that you don’t need to spend a dime to enjoy — and benefit from — some of the best sex games. There are a few you can make yourself right at home.

A game might be especially helpful if you and your partner have hit a dry spell. Sometimes, it takes a bit of variety to get super hot for each other again, and games all add variety. “Playing games is one way to reignite the spark — especially if those games push your comfort zone,” says Dr. Jess. “They have the potential to reignite the feelings you experienced when you first met.”

Here are a few simple sex games that can get you and your partner talking about sex, inspire you to explore new activities and fantasies, teach you about each other, and take your passion to the next level.

1. The Frequency Exercise

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A lot of couples feel unsatisfied with their sex lives due to miscommunications over how often each person wants sex, says Dr. Jess. The person in the relationship who wants more sex tends to think their partner wants less sex than they do, and the person who wants less tends to think their partner wants more sex than they do. In other words, partners overestimate the difference between each other’s sex drives. As a result, the person who wants more sex may just give up, and the person who wants less may feel inadequate or pressured.

To clear up these misunderstandings, each person writes two numbers on a piece of paper for this game: how often they’d like to have sex, and how often they think their partner would. Then, exchange papers and have a conversation about how you can both meet each other’s needs without anyone feeling pressured. “Formalizing the discussion related to sexual frequency helps to avoid miscommunications and inaccurate assumptions,” says Dr. Jess.

2. Mutual Fantasizing

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When you’re out with your partner, look around for people who might be checking one of you out. Then, when you’re alone, you can tell each other what you might do if that other person were there. (This only works if it won’t bother any of you, obviously.) You might say something like “I saw that waitress checking you out. I think she wanted a piece of you,” says Dr. Jess.

3. Pick A Card

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Make cards with all sorts of sexual activities you’d enjoy. (Look some up online if you’re out of ideas.) Then, one of you picks five they like, the other person draws one, and they have 24 hours to get it done — as long as everyone consents, obviously.

These three very different games should be plenty to occupy you night after night without buying anything.

Sex Games to Spice Up Your Marriage

Sex games are crucial to spice up your marriage with your partner, whether you’re a newly married couple or soon celebrating your 10th anniversary, some couples just happen to fall in a sex rut. It’s bound to happen, married couples can end up treating sex as a chore and the intimacy decreases. But don’t you let that happen to you, keep your relationship revived by maintaining your sexual needs satisfied as a couple.

Sex games are an exciting way to get you wanting each others, they’re a fun and a great idea to spend an evening with your partner. Step up from boring sex, don’t let making love get repetitive and have a thrilling experience trying out new things together like the below sex game ideas. Here are three sex games to try out with your partner.

1. The Naughty Cards
Plan for a game night, but this time use that deck of cards differently. Start by assigning each suit a sexy thing to do, and decide those things together. For example, hearts mean stripping, spades mean kissing, clubs mean getting a massage and diamonds mean using a sex toy. Stack the cards deck facing downwards, at this point your partner should be blindfolded, and should pick a card randomly. Check what the card reads and start by performing the sexy moves that the cards denotes on your partner with a duration according to the number of card, so if the picked card was a six club, then your partner should get an arousing massage for six minutes. He picked a joker? Then it’s his lucky day! A joker means you can go creative and pick whatever sexual activity you like to do, lick some whipping cream off his chest or lead him to make love in an unexpected place. After you’re done with this, then it’s your turn to get blindfolded and pick a card. Isn’t this sex game a fun way to keep the intimacy in your marriage going?
2. Handcuffed in Bed
You always make love in bed, why don’t you try to spice it up a little bit? Inspired by ’50 Shades of Grey,’ give your man four neckties, lie naked and let him tie your wrists and ankles to the bedposts in this sex game. If your bed doesn’t have bedposts, maybe he could tie your wrists together behind your back and fasten the neckties on your ankles to the legs of the bed. All what you have to do is relax and let him make love to you the way he wants. You’ll be aroused by being powerless and having him perform unexpected moves on you. If you want to go the extra mile, wear some lingerie and let him rip it off you after you’ve been cuffed with the neckties.
3. The Kinky ‘Would You Rather’
This isn’t your usual ‘Would You Rather’ game, consider it an x-rated version of the good old game. The kinky ‘Would You Rather’ is all about asking naughty questions and actually doing the answer that your partner has chosen. For example, ask him “Would you rather take a shower together or be given a lap dance?” If he answers that he would rather be given a lap dance, then it means that you should treat your man to a lap dance! Keep the choices interesting, you could include new sex positions or sexual fantasies in this sex game. You’ll get to know a lot about each others’ sexual preferences from the choices both of you will be making.

Let’s get one thing straight: having any sort of sex routine isn’t a bad thing. In fact, some relationship experts say scheduling sex can help maintain a healthy, long-term relationship. But it’s also nice to mix things up every once in awhile because, just like anything else in life, trying new things helps you explore uncharted territory to figure out what you like (and don’t). Play these fun, expert-endorsed sex games for couples, that will hopefully result in sensational discoveries and maybe even unlock some new sexual fantasies. So, light a romantic candle, cue up your sultriest playlist, and settle in.

1. Domination

What you need: Handcuffs or something to tie your wrists (bandana, silk scarf, tie, etc)

How to play: Tie your partner’s wrists to the headboard, pin them to the mattress, and go a little more wild than usual—you can even sprinkle in hints of gentle aggression. Don’t be afraid to talk rough, stating exactly what you’re going to do to your partner sexually. Switch roles if you prefer to be the submissive.

Why it’s fun: This is a form of role play that encourages your partner to speak freely without worrying about holding back, says Fran Walfish, Psy.D., a family and relationship psychotherapist in Beverly Hills. “When you step into another role or personality, it can make exploring different likes and dislikes more approachable,” she explains. “It’s also an exciting way to capitalize on one’s fantasy of being overtaken by their partner.”

2. Popsicle Lick

What you need: Thawed-out frozen strawberries (you can also use ice cream, whipped cream, or any other food you enjoy)

How to play: Get into a “69” position and slather thawed out frozen strawberries onto your partner’s genitals. Slowly lick up and down, savoring each flavor. As you get into it, suck with more fervor until you feel your partner about to climax, then slow down and repeat until you’re both satisfied.

Why it’s fun: “This game is the antidote for those who were raised with direct or covert messages that oral sex is disgusting and unwanted, even though they secretly desired it,” Walfish says. “It’ll teach you both that there’s nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to pleasuring your partner, and serve as a reminder that you don’t have to jump straight into intercourse.”

4. Full-Course Meal

What you need: Various rooms in your house, food/drinks for each room

How to play: Prepare a five-part meal (drinks, appetizers, salad, main dish, and dessert) and place each course in a different room in your house. As you go to each room, you’re required to eat what’s prepared and take your erotic activity to the next level. Example: in the drinks room, start with cuddling and a light makeout as you sip your cocktail of choice. For appetizers, feel up your partner over their clothes as you feed each other, and maybe remove an item or two. Keep leveling up as far as you’re comfortable within each room.

Why it’s fun: Not only do you get to actually eat (yum!), but Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D., a marriage counselor in Boulder, Colorado says this is a great game that adds variety and fun to your sexual relationship while building up tension and anticipation.

5. Play Up Your Personality

What you need: This list of sexual personality types

How to play: Read over the 11 sexual personality types separately, and pick your absolute favorite based on what you think is the most important aspect of sex. (It’s OK if you identify with a bunch, but make sure there’s a top choice.) Then, make two different sex dates. On the first, you’ll have the kind of sex that emphasizes your sexual personality, and on the second you’ll cater to your partner. Example: If you’re The Explorer, you can try a bunch of different sex positions, or mix things up by only using your hands with each other—no mouths allowed.

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Don’t want to wait for two separate dates? Hop to it and get intimate right then and there, spending 10 to 30 minutes on your favorite type before switching to your partner’s.

Why it’s fun: “Your sexual personality type is like your love language for sex,” says Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist based in Los Angeles. And while a lot of us want to experience different things, most couples don’t ever talk about it—leading to a sack session that doesn’t feel particularly satisfying for one or both parties involved. “But once you understand your sexual personality and your partner’s, you can work together to make sure you have both kinds of sex, and can enjoy each other’s favorite versions that much more.”

6. Sexy Clue

What you need: Three piles of cards: one for characters, one for locations, and one for sex toys

How to play: This game is a riff off the classic game of Clue, so you first need to create your cards. Character cards should describe different roles—like a wicked witch, biker dude, or sexy teacher—while locations can be in the kitchen, playroom, or basement. Your sex toys can be as wild as you want, from your tongue to a lipstick vibrator or even a leather flogger.

Once you have your cards, place them into piles and shuffle the decks. Each partner picks a card from the piles, creating a scene and role to play. Once you have your role, dress up in character using a costume or things you have in the closet. Your partner must guess your location; as soon as they find you, you’ll use the sex toy to tease and touch your partner. After, it’s your turn to go find your partner in their location, where you’ll start the fun all over with a brand new toy.

Why it’s fun: “Some long-term couples become less passionate over time, so imbuing novelty, surprise, and humor can breathe fresh air and creativity into their sex lives,” says Sari Cooper, LCSW, CST, founder of Center for Love and Sex in New York City. Plus, creating the cards yourselves allows each of you to contribute your own erotic fantasies and curiosity into the relationship, and taking on a new role allows for a power exchange as one plays the leader and the other follows.

7. Aural Sex

What you need: Two erotic stories (each partner should choose one). This can be an explicit scene from a book you like, or something you found online

How to play: Have your erotic stories handy. If it’s on your phone, turn off notifications so you don’t get distracted. Read one story aloud or silently together. (Note: reading it aloud can enhance the experience.)

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Explain why you chose the story—what you liked about it, how it affected you, what you’d like to try from it—and then ask for their reactions. If you’re both comfortable, act out the scene.

Why it’s fun: “Reading or discussing an erotic story aloud stimulates both the oral and auditory senses,” says Candice Smith, co-founder of the KinkKit. Think of it as a fun way to add extra spice to foreplay, without having to come up with what to say yourself.

8. Sweet Hiding Spot

What you need: Blindfold, small candies (like chocolate kisses), silk tie

How to play: In this game, there’s the Hider and the Seeker. The Seeker starts kneeling on the bed, with a blindfold over their eyes and hands tied behind their back. The Hider strips down and lays on the bed next to the Seeker, placing a set number of candies in different spots on their body. When the Hider is ready, they let the Seeker know how many candies to search for. Using kisses only, the Seeker must then find each candy. The Hider may choose to give hints like “higher” or “lower,” but they can also choose to stay silent.

Why it’s fun: “Research shows that long-term couples who regularly kiss passionately report happier, more fulfilled sex lives,” Smith says. This game takes that notion to the next level, opening up the opportunity for full-body kissing (rather than just focusing on someone’s lips) and discovering new-to-you pleasure zones.

9. Sexpectations

What you need: Sexpectations Card Deck $17.97

How to play: Take turns drawing a card from the deck. Read the question aloud, then try to guess your partner’s response. The deck is complete with 52 conversation cards, covering everything from getting in the mood to romance outside the bedroom. You can go through a few at a time, one per week, or blast through the whole deck in one highly-aroused day.

Why it’s fun: Many couples use conversation cards as a way to enhance foreplay, while others use it to draw a mental map of their partner’s needs and preferences, say Adam and Karissa King , California-based marriage counselors. “It can be easy to let the bedroom activity take a backseat, but these cards can make you both excited about reigniting a passion.”

10. Karezza

What you need: Yourselves

How to play: Have a contest to see who can prevent themselves from climaxing the longest. Whoever climaxes first has to complete a chore for the night (be it sexual or not), chosen by the winner.

Why it’s fun: “Karezza involves tantric, slow, ultra-affectionate sex that builds emotional closeness instead of moving partners toward orgasm,” says Laurel Steinberg, Ph.D., assistant professor of clinical sexology at the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists. Consider it another way to focus on your bond, rather than the final outcome.

11. Follow the Leader

What you need: Yourselves

How to play: Determine who is the Follower and who’s the Leader. The Leader traces their fingers and tongue all over the Follower in the exact way that they want to be touched. The Follower then has to remember the same movements and replicate them on the Leader. Switch roles as many times as you’d like.

Why it’s fun: Not only is it a fun memory game that builds sexual anticipation, but copying what someone does is the most sincere form of flattery, Steinberg says. Up the ante by creating a trail of whipped cream or chocolate sauce, and licking up fun patterns that your partner will have to remember when it’s their turn.

12. Let the Dice Decide

What you need: One bowl, 20 folded pieces of paper, dice, a pen

How to play: Each person writes down 10 things they want their partners to do (these can be naughty or not), folds the papers, and puts them into the bowls. Throw the dice. Whoever gets the higher number wins, and the loser must pick a paper from a bowl and perform whatever’s written on the paper (if they want to, of course).

Why it’s fun: Sure, you could always just take turns drawing papers and performing what’s on them at random. But adding in the dice adds an extra spice element, encouraging partners to let go of their inhibitions, says Alex Miller, sexologist at Orchid Toys. And if you write down a chore that isn’t usually naughty (say, doing the dishes), you may be surprised at how quickly it can become sexy and fun.

13. Blind Poker

What you need: A deck of cards

How to play: No matter what poker game you decide to play (hold ‘em, five card stud), none of the players can look at their cards. You must bet without seeing them, and instead of betting money or chips, you choose a sex action. (Example: “I see your massage and raise you oral.) Once the betting is over, players show their cards—whoever loses performs all of the acts that were mentioned in the bet. Again, if they want to.

Why it’s fun: While you can always play a more “traditional” game like strip poker or truth or dare, this version combines both to create a more enticing sex game. “It’s a good way to increase adrenaline and sexual tension,” Miller says. “Plus, it’s an easy way for shy, or confrontation-averse, partners to talk about the things they really want to experience in bed.”

14. A Tryst With a Secret Admirer

What you need: A roster of interesting locations, a creative mind.

How to play: Take turns acting as each other’s secret admirer–leaving clues, tokens of affection, and sexy propositions strewn throughout your home, in the car, or tucked into pants and coat pockets. Example: Have anonymous flowers delivered to their office, pin a sexy riddle to their steering wheel, or drop a string of one-line clues that follow the path of their morning routine, leading them to the lobby of a swanky speak-easy or other mysterious, dimly-lit location. The recipient plays along in the “discovery” of their secret admirer’s identity.

Why it’s fun: You and your partner get to take turns feeding each other nibbles of mystery and suspense all day long, which is quite the aphrodisiac. Bonus? It gets you out of your analytical mind and encourages you to be inventive and playful. “I love it when sex is viewed through a lens of play,” says Marin. “From the time we are children, we enjoy make believe, as well as delighting in our bodies. This natural desire to play doesn’t end in adulthood, even as we grow in our sexuality. So, as long as it feels good to you, allowing yourself to play through your sexual desires is a healthy way to be creative, and keep things interesting.”

15. Aladdin’s Lamp

What you need: Four sheets of paper, a genie lamp (or other enticing vessel), and an attitude of openness.

How to play: Each partner grabs several small pieces of paper and writes down one of their most riveting fantasies on each. Some fantasies might be of an uncomplicated variety—like a jolting romp on the washing machine, while others might be more elaborate and whimsical—like slipping into roles that transport the both of you to another place and time (say, the wounded soldier and his nurse). The papers are then folded and placed inside of the vessel. Each week, the couple takes turns drawing a fantasy to step into.

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Why it’s fun: This game is a spirited way to vividly communicate the things you’ve dreamed of trying with your partner, but perhaps never felt brave enough to confess. It also keeps you in tune with your partner’s yearnings. “We need to nurture and prioritize getting to know our partners continually, because as humans we are always changing; our tastes, interests, even some aspects of our personality traits,” says Dr. Judy Ho, Triple Board-Certified Clinical and Forensic Neuropsychologist, author of Stop Self Sabotage, and Co-Host of The Doctors.

Besides, what better way to work toward sexual fulfillment than to be given a magic carpet ride leading straight to the manifestation of your most deep-seated fantasies–maybe ones you’ve carried with you for decades?

16. Sexy Scrabble

What you need: Scrabble.

How to play: Dressed in seductive attire (or none at all), set the mood with music, candles, and cocktails, grab the game and clear a comfortable space on the floor. The first rule is this: Players are only allowed to call upon words plucked from their most erotic vocabularies. Second, if you spell out a body part, your partner gets to lean into you and plant a lustful, wet kiss there (and vice versa).

Why it’s fun: Not only is it intellectually stimulating, but it allows the arousal–and physical interaction–to build gradually.

17. A Prisoner of Want

What you need: An alluring room with a lock on the door.

How to play: This one is all about pleasing your significant other—making him or her a prisoner of their own quirks and primitive desires. Lock your partner into a room (one you have previously agreed upon, of course), and inform them that they are your hostage for the day or evening. They aren’t to be set free until their pleasure zones have been titillated in excess, and gratification has reached maximum capacity.

Why it’s fun: Your partner will be blitzed into a state of euphoria from all of the focused adoration, affection and pleasure. You’ll get the enjoyment of watching them moan at your mercy.

18. You Had Me at Sexting

What you need: Our Moments Sexting: 100 Messages to Text

How to play: This deck of cards contains ideas to inspire thoughts or questions to text to your partner. You can start slowly with simple statements like, “I wonder what we would be doing if you were in bed with me right now…” gradually getting racier and escalating to an apex of hungering passion as the day or evening progresses.

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Why it’s fun: Aside from being the epitome of 21st Century eroticism, Dr. Ho says this can go a long way toward bolstering connection and strengthening your bond. “You have to create the opportunities where sexual intimacy can occur and flourish naturalistically with your partner. Send them a sexy text or a racy photo. Tell them how excited you are to see them after work,” she says.

19. Feels Like the First Time

What you need: Yourselves

How to play: This game is simple and almost entirely psychological, and its intention is to resuscitate the excitement of brand-new infatuation. You and your partner pretend it’s your first sexual encounter. Their most private architecture—and yours—is new, unexplored territory to the other. You’re each discovering, for the first time, how the other smells, tastes, sounds and feels while pressed against your naked flesh.

Why it’s fun: Remember the early days of your love affair—when a mere brush of your lover’s hand sent a chill down your spine? No matter how long it’s been, this may incite that feeling of ravishment that comes with a romance that’s yet to be spoiled by the interferences and stressors of life, perhaps reawakening you to the facets of your partner you had forgotten were so beguiling, delicious and irresistible. Can’t you already feel your skin getting hot?

20. Look But You Can’t Touch

What you need: Yourselves, a timer

How to play: For 30 whole minutes, touching is dangerously forbidden. One partner examines every inch of the other’s naked body—exploring it at leisure and drifting their hands across its edges—without ever actually touching their flesh.

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Why it’s fun: It’s the epitome of a tantalizing encounter. Each will revel in the excitement of exchanging energy and body heat, without so much as a stroke. And, when you finally do touch, it will likely be gratifying for both of you.

21. Royal Rendezvous

What you need: A robe, a crown (and, perhaps, a gold scepter)

How to play: One of you is royalty for the entire evening, and the other is the sexy, obliging attendant (aside from any activity that has been predetermined to be off-the-table, of course). Whether king or queen, he or she gives orders to the attendant, getting exactly what they request, in the manner that they request it. Marin says it’s ideal to get specific with this one, giving instructions like “stroke my back,” or “increase the pressure,” while allowing all of your magisterial whims to be catered to. The following evening, week or month, reverse the roles.

Why it’s fun: Marin believes this exercise is especially fantastic for the cultivation of a fulfilling sex life because it improves the way you and your partner divvy out and receive useful feedback. “You’re never going to get anything better from your partner unless you specifically ask for it,” she says.

22. Timed Encounter

What you need: A timer.

How to play: Grab your phone and set a timer for three minutes. Immediately let the foreplay begin, pulling away from each other the second the timer expires—no matter how ferociously the intensity may have been building. Next, change positions or rooms and resume where you left off—until both parties have had their way with the other.

Why it’s fun: Recent studies have shown that boredom in the bedroom leads to a loss of libido. Allowing yourself bursts of pleasure in such a mercurial setting is great for obliterating the monotony and allowing the suspense to feed each other’s attraction and desire.

23. Ice, Ice Baby

What you need: A wine or rocks glass filled with ice cubes.

How to play: Start with the lips and decolletage. Take turns exploring each other’s bodies, gliding across the erogenous zones and shadowy crevices—from the nipples to the inner thighs—with ice. Move in sensual, teasing strokes. You could even pass the ice cube back and forth with your mouths.

Why it’s fun: The sensation of the sudden change in temperature may hurl your partner into a toe-curling, squirming state of euphoria—the pendulum swinging from discomforting surprise to pleasurable thrill.

24. Three Tiers of Pleasure

What you need: Nookii Couple’s Board Game

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How to play: This sophisticated board game comes packaged with 90 cards, a pair of dice, a timer and a few other small props. Together, you move through three tiers of exploration and discovery of one another’s body and mind—starting with commands and prompts that provoke arousal, then progressing into heavier petting, and eventually arriving at total debauchery.

Why it’s fun: There is always an element of surprise—never knowing which card the other will draw. Plus, it eases you both into the act and allows a stretch of warming-up, which makes for a more organic, less pressured romp. This, in turn, further cultivates your chemistry and connection. “Fulfilling sex is ultimately not about how often or how much. It’s about meaningful, quality sex that connects you and strengthens your bond with one another,” says Dr. Ho.

25. Hot and Heavy Stones

What you need: Limestones, a slow cooker, a few hand towels, massage oil

How to play: Wrap each stone in a hand towel and place inside of the slow cooker, on a low setting, for 30 minutes to an hour. Once the stones are hot (be careful!), have your partner lie down, in the nude, onto their stomach. Begin massaging their flesh, from head-to-toe, with the oils. Place the stones along their spine and shoulders, and once cooled slightly, begin using them to massage and explore your partner’s body.

Why it’s fun: Studies have revealed that massaging your partner not only improves individual well-being, but may draw the two of you closer emotionally. Regardless, an oily, hot stone massage is indulgent and relaxing, and is an opportune way to enjoy a slow, thorough voyage of your lover’s curves and grooves.

26. Rip It Off

What you need: Inexpensive, see-through underwear, shorts or tank tops

How to play: Put on some touchable, body-hugging pieces of flimsy underwear or loungewear. Once you’ve established a sexy momentum, encourage your partner to rip them from your body—letting them decide if they prefer to use their hands… or teeth.

Why it’s fun: While this isn’t exactly the real-deal variety of bodice-ripping sex, it provides a similarly ravaging effect, fulfilling your most barbaric, primal instincts—except nothing expensive or of value will be destroyed.

27. Cat and Mouse

What you need: Yourself, an interesting room or space with lots of nooks and hollows

How to play: Have your partner chase you around your apartment, house or room—zigzagging across corners and into closets, popping under and out of the bed covers. The idea is for the “prey” to only let itself be conquered for a few tantalizing minutes at a time, and to continuously “slip” from the cat’s grip, until the mouse is brought to its sexy knees.

Why it’s fun: Your partner is continuously kept in a state of high-drama unpredictably, never knowing when you’ll vanish from their grip. You get the thrill of being pursued.

28. Mirroring

What you need: Yourselves

How to play: You and your partner undress and get in a seated position. One partner starts the game by kissing, touching, and exploring certain angles of the other’s body, and then the other begins to simultaneously kiss, touch, and explore their partner in the same places, each caress moving to an identical rhythm.

Why it’s fun: It’s a powerful, non-verbal way of communicating precisely how each other prefers to be touched. Also a steamy route to getting your bodies in sync.

29. Dares of Desire

What you need: Dare Duel

How to play: In this game, you and your partner take turns drawing cards and selecting words or phrases to devise a series of romantic dares to be acted out. Next, the two of you will wrestle over who will perform each dare.

Dare Duel – A Romantic Game for Couples $25.99

Why it’s fun: You and your partner get to customize the combinations of words to create the atmosphere and energy you’re after—whether intimate and sensual or raunchy and wild. Each of you get to insert your most audacious desires into the dare prompts, making this game highly communicative, but also a test to one’s level of security and trust within the relationship. Dr. Ho says that both are essential to keeping the intimacy and spice alive. “When people stop sharing their deepest desires, they start isolating themselves from their partners, which then causes even more of a rift and divide that makes feeling safe and secure harder to achieve.”

30. Steamy and Slippery

What you need: A steam room, sauna or hot shower, body oil

How to play: Dip into a sauna or steam room if you have access to a private one, but if not, turn up the dial on your home shower and let the steam permeate the space. Saturate each other’s bodies in a delicious-smelling, slippery oil, step into the heat and let your inhibitions melt away. Leave your reservations in the dry, stale cold.

Why it’s fun: You’ll both feel cradled in your private cocoon of steam, while enjoying the sensation of your slick, sweaty bodies sliding animalistically against the other’s.

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