How to be Confident
Anyone can learn how to be confident
when dating girls. If you are shy, know the reasons.
If you know the root of the problem, you will resolve
the problem quickly. Here are some reasons why some
men are shy about dating:
* Fear of rejection
* Low self-esteem
* Not good at making conversation
* Clueless about how to handle the opposite sex
Fear of Rejection
Rejection is a number game. We can't expect everyone
to like us. Go for a group date with your more confident
male friends. Their confidence will rub off on you.
You will act more confidently in a group - it's a herd
instinct. If you are lost for words, your friends will
back you up.
If you want to be confident, you have to feel good about
who you are and the way you look. You may not be very
good looking. Look is not everything. Even the Beast
gets his Beauty. I don't think Mike Jagger is handsome
either. Accept what nature has given you, but there
are things you can change. If you are overweight, start
losing some. If you are out of shape, go to the gym.
If your dress sense is dated, sign up for a grooming
course and go buy a few new clothes.
If you want others to like you, you
have to like yourself first.
Not Good at Making Conversation
You may be shy because you are not good at making conversation.
All you need is to start practicing. Smile at people
you meet at the lift. Take every opportunity to chat
with women anywhere e.g. over the store counter, at
social events. People like to be talked to. Once you
get used to talking with new people, chatting will come
~ Sam Choo